When giving head my jaw locks open. I need help!

Okay, so yesterday was my first time giving head. I have a problem with my jaw as is, even when I yawn it get stuck open and I have to get it back into place. It hurts really bad too.

But I was having mad issuses going down on him. My jaw would lock open and its really uncomfortable. I don't know how I can help fix this...

Help me out.
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im pretty sure your jaw will get used to it with practice.
when i ws younger i knew a girl who this happened too. After giving head a few tiems her jaw totally got used to it

 

If your jaw is easy to lock (I know mine sometimes locks when I yawn aswell and your right, it is really uncomfortable to get put back in), try excersizing your jaw before hand. Just slowly move it from side to side and up and down, a few circular movements. Start with small movements and work up to big ones. Even if you do this for just 1 or 2 minutes it can help.
For the blowjob, try laying on your side with your head on a pillow or two and have him work his dick into your mouth from that position. He gets his head job and you don't have to work your jaw so much.

Good luck.

 

pull back more often to close your jaw. mine pops out of joint, and gets really sore/almost stuck if its out of joint too often, so i have to pull back often. just lube up his cock withyour saliva a lot and use your hand when you have to pull back and close your jaw. lick up and down his cock too, dont just suck

 

It locks open? Open is the preferred state. I don't see why this is a problem.

 

dont worry. mine does that too. just warm it up and take it slow to begin with.

if its too uncomfortable then say tough titties no bj today. its takes some getting used to. i never used to like giving bj's coz it was so uncomfortbale but now i am more used to it.

 

Read her post again. It's a problem because it hurts.

 

^^ Haha, he gets it.

Well, you think that also the reason why it was locking open was because I was really nervous?

 

look up something called tmj, if your jaw is popping otu of joint/gettings tuck like that. may be what you have. my jaw pops out of joint, like i said, thats why it gets "locked" or stuck open if i let it sit out of joint too long, and then it hurts like a mofo to close again properly

 

My sister has that, so maybe I do have it. But everytime I pop it back in I freak out.
I feel like im grinding the bone too much and I wont have a jaw by the time im 50.
Hahah

o.o

 

It sounds like you just need to relax a little bit

 

Try pulling back for a little while when you start to cramp up and just lick him or stroke him with your hand. Like most things practice makes perfect!

 

So I pretty much just need to relax and take it easy.
And not just suck the entire time as well.


What do I do about choking and gagging though?

 

choking and gaggin means youre going to deep, or hes thrusting to meet you too hard. thats why i typically use my hand(s) as well, wrapped around his shaft, and just meeting my lips. gives you a lot more control over hwo deep his cock goes into your mouth

 

yea that happened to me even after my first time. you just have to get used to it and then eventually it goes away.

 

Love hurts sweetie. Suck it up. (you can take that literally, figuratively, or both)

 

By the way 90 paces, I think it's wonderful that you are seeking this kind of input so seriously and earnestly. Don't mind my mocking posts, I just do it to take out my own sexual frustrations.

 

it MAY be that you just need to get used to it. but if it really is seriously painful, and after several more tries you can't do it without this happening, then perhaps you ought to get yourself checked out by a doctor and see what they think is going on with you. everyone gets tired or a little sore once in a while when giving oral sex, regardless of the gender of either the giver OR receiver, but i've not heard of having problems with the jaw locking open and pain associated with the joints.

there may be a medical problem, and you may actually just need to forget about the possibility of giving head (of course while you're too young for me, this would be a sad state of affairs for your guy judging by your pic...)

as for the choking/gagging, its all up to you. in this regard its a matter of what you want.....i know i prefer having a girl take everything i've got, repeatedly and with gusto...but i know a lot of guys who couldnt care less if she never went past the glans (the tip of the penis, what a lot of people call the head, where the nerve endings are most concentrated)...

gagging can certainly be uncomfortable for the giver, but paradoxically it feels amazing for the guy....i love it....but i certainly understand that very few people would enjoy actually gagging, and as such would certainly understand a partner wanting to avoid this sensation whenever they could. there are two ways of doing this...practice, practice, practice till you've mastered the art of deepthroat and almost never gag anymore, or just dont let him in farther that you're comfortable with.

a good way to practice without him around would be with a vibrator or dildo. obviously owning one of these would have even more benefits than simply practicing giving head, too. while i've never given a guy head, i've heard that making the motion of swallowing will allow you to take about another two inches or so with reasonable ease, but i dont know if it's true.

if you can't get your jaw problem under control or dont feel comfortable giving head for whatever reason, there are plenty of other things you can do for fun without it, so dont worry. but i hope you enjoy yourself regardless of what happens, and i hope you are safe.

and remember its your body and nobody else's, so if you decide not to give head anymore then forget about any guy who has a problem with it.

 

lol