Datable?

I'm mostly recovered from my break up and I think I'm good for a new relationship... Is a guy like this datable?:

I'm kind of short and im weak (working on the weak part)... I'm not too great at "fucking", and I give a girl her pleasure orally. I do of course like to go inside her and I can make love intimately, but I can't go too fast for too long without cumming (also working on that!)... In entering a new relationship I'd tell the girl to get sex however and from whoever she wants to, and I'm there as her stability, to be cheated on and barked orders at. (also i cant cheat on HER. ever.) I love doing whattever a woman tells me to so I'm great for using for errands... So basically, she uses me for romantic and emotional stability and as her "foundation", and is free to do whattever she wants. in terms of sex, i prefer dominatrix stuff and being cheated on (while being forced to watch or listen) but its really entirely up to her- not me.

 

I think you have some deep-rooted self-esteem issues there, buddy.

 

No.

But a guy like that would make a great doormat if you've got any local girls looking for someone they can drag around on a leash!

Why do you have SO little respect for yourself?

 

soooo not the kind of guy id wanna date, but im subsmissive not a dominatirx. try alt.com if youre looking for a dating site for that sort of thing

 

I wouldn't be able to respect you and I can't date guys I don't respect. I also wouldn't feel very loved if someone was okay with me fooling around on them. I'm not judging you though. I am just stating my opinion. I agree with the other poster that maybe meeting someone through an s&m website or club would be a better way to go about it.
Do you actually get off sexually on letting someone walk over you or is it an esteem issue?

 

There is nothing wrong with being a submissive and you should be able to enjoy it, not be criticized for who you are. Some people are just submissive and thats the way it is. They do not choose it, but often fight it because society finds them to be doormats. A submissive is not a weak willed person who has no control over their life, quite the contrary actually.

You like being used, and seek a relationship to be used in. That does not make you weak, it makes you honest. You want to be cheated on, but you also want to watch. Again you are being honest.

I think it is hard for people that aren't submissive to understand the desire to serve another, to be used, to be degraded, or other such things. Society tells us to be strong, and no to let others control us. Hard to get away from that.

As for "are you datable"? Hell yeah! You are a dream come true for many Mistresses (some Masters too ). Don't beat up on yourself because you like things that most don't. Think of the saying "different strokes for different folks" and be happy with who you are.

 

If you're a submissive, then a dominant woman will probably find you datable.

 

more and more girls are into this shit as their sense of entitlement inreases. you should have no trouble.

 

heretical ass! the flying spagetti monster is a false god.

I have seen revealed the divine word of the flying spagehtti BEAST, and you sir are going to suffer an eternity of saurceless damnation

 

Just get married and all your dreams will come true.

 

hell ya there are plenty of women who would love to OWN YOU. just make sure you can handle the abuse

 

yay! haha, are you talking from experience?

 

honestly i like to be the submissive one, but it's always been a afantasy of me to dominate over my man

 

yum Does that mean you have a "switchable" nature? Like 70% sub 30 % dom? lol