Are you very sensitive to praise and criticsism?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Hari, May 18, 2007.

  1. Hari

    Hari Art thou Art

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    Does it affect you when someone corrects you, or tells you something good about yourself?

    To what degree? Does it matter who is saying it?
     
  2. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    It affects mine too much. I've gotten better at getting my self-concept intrensictly though :)
     
  3. The_Walrus

    The_Walrus Sgt. Pepper

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    I take it to heart, but I don't let it run my life.
     
  4. LostHorizons

    LostHorizons Member

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    i feel good when praised.
     
  5. jonnydisaster5

    jonnydisaster5 Member

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    i enjoy insulting hippies. especially dumb ones. marginalize. beer.
     
  6. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Oh my goodness yes, does it ever. Especially criticism. I don't take it well at all. But I realize why this is, it stems from my childhood.
     
  7. mudpuddle

    mudpuddle MangaHippiePornStar Lifetime Supporter

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    Why Do you Ask so many Questions?
     
  8. Rayan

    Rayan Member

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    depends - in the business world you need to be able to take praise and criticism on the understanding that it it constructive

    But you get people who say stuff just forthe sake of saying stuff. Thats annoying.
     
  9. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    Depends on the situation, the person delivering said criticism and their agenda...

    My current chapter of life has me carefully rationing emotional energy lest I hand over an excess amount of influence over my sense of well being. Often criticism is merely intended as a tool to get under one's skin. In this case the best response is none at all... especially internal responses.
     
  10. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    same here. I am horrible in the sense that I can't spend time with people who don't praise me because I feel like crap about myself afterwards. Also, I assume everyone else is like me so I compliment people like crazy, sometimes to my detriment.
     
  11. Hari

    Hari Art thou Art

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    Why does anyone ask a question?
     
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