Hm... where to begin... Basically, I've been talking lately with a girl I like.. she supposively likes me back. However, once it came to down asking if were dating now she says she doesn't like to date during the summer.. Here's where the story begins. I met this girl we'll call "Lucy" back in February, however at the time she liked a friend of mine... they ended up not dating. Lets fast forward to when I actually started talkign with her, over myspace then it shifted towards texting/AIM and what not. We gradually started talking about how much we liked each other and how she "loved" me and hoped we got really close. She was saying this even though we hadn't EVER talked to each other in real life, and i've seen in her person once before. So we had been hoping to chill... however week after week something eventually came up. Last weekend I hung out with all of her friends and guy friends but her.. she was out of town. I was attracted to her best friend, and her best friend told me she was attracted to me but didn't want to mess up what Anna and I "have", so it practically ended there. This weekend was different, we chilled on Friday.. she was quieter than I expected, but nothing out of the norm. We chilled only for an hour or so late last night. Now, today, we hung out for al ong time... i didnt show much affection towards her besides for a few hugs when she came and left. I asked her later tonight if she would ever "date" a guy like me, and this is where she said maybe, well ya, but she doesn't like to date people during the summer.. Yet she said she wanted to get really close with me over the summer. I think I have been talking with her too much, or asking things that could be classified as "clingy" or whatever. If anyone could please give me any advice on what I should do it would be greatly appreciated... thanks.
I would say ignore her for a while or just don't talk to her as much as you do now...tone it down a little. If she is really interested she will try to reach you herself.
Well, we talked tonight, a deep talk, and I asked her what went wrong.. she thought I didn't like her, which isnt true at all. She said she was sorry for what happened and wish she could take back time.... I told her i still had feelings for her, she agreed and said she also still had feelings for me. Unfortunately, shes moved on, and is about to be dating a new guy. I'm going on a date tomorrow night... and I have a feeling she'll be running through my head the whole time. Please help me?
Id say go with the flow man. I know how it is and in my opinion letting time fix things is the best medicine. If you guys are really meant to be, then it will happen.
