You know what's annoying?

When you're all excited about something and you wanna sing and dance and jump around and let the whole world know how excited and happy you are, but everyone else around you are just kinda "oh yea cool or whatever.."




That's my random thought for the night.

 

i know exactly what you mean...is kind of a downer too.
=]

 

Yeah, it IS a bit of a downer.

 

I personally still struggle with trying not to want ANY validation through others... Hard to reconcile that with feeling a need to share lifes experiences.

It definetly is a bummer.. The only answer is fuck 'em, do your happy dance anyways!

 

it's not a bit of a bummer
it's a LOT of a bummer

 

I'm sorry, I am one of those people.

 

Many people are too self-centered to actually participate in other's happiness.

 

I say this kindly...

What're you so damn excited about?

 

sorta envying you
i hate when people behave like this
dont care

 

when you need or want to get something done and some else things their excitement and demanding your attention about it is more important then the kind of world we all have to live in.

i do want people to be able to feel happy and loved, but give the rest of us an effing break, please.

=^^=
..../\...

 

that's true... it'd be nice to have others at least fake enthusiasm when you're excited about something...

 

Haha, well umm... lots of stuff really. I'm about to finish uni and life is awesome and it's summer and everything's just great. I'm just feeling hyper and annoyingly happy these days. It's worrying. :leaving:

 

Party pooper.

 

pfft. i RELISH my friends' joy. i like seeing people i love ecstatic. GOOD FOR YOU, blue.

 

Ah, like how I love Krsna while all the sad people who love themselves try and tell me I am wrong

If you need the acceptance and the experience of other people sharing in your joy, then ask yourself, are you TRULY as happy as you think you are? Because if you are in that state of bliss, everyone else sort of, doesnt exist Or, in my case, there is no EVERYONE else ...

 

nah. when i'm really happy, i want everyone to feel as good as i do. i like to share the joy, share the wealth, share the moment.

 

What do you mean "nah" ???!

Of course, it is natural for us as humans to want to share our happiness, usually it is in the sense of an epiphany or revelation, like, why when we are on drugs we like to talk so much. Or, when we are in love, we want to tell the whole world. Or, when we hear an awesome song at a conert we want to dance with everyone.
But the truth is, happiness is a selfish feeling. Not that its a bad thing, but it is only experienced within yourself. To want to share that feeling shows compassion, but the reality of the world is that only you can make yourself happy, even when you are in love with another person, that love is a shared emotion (hopefully!) but in the end it is you who is experiencing the sharing. Do you follow me? So in reality, we are LUCKY if we can turn on other people to what we feel in our hearts and minds as happiness.

 

Exactly. Happiness is only half as good if you can't share it with anyone!

 

i said 'nah' to your belief that the rest of the world goes away. i don't think happiness is a selfish emotion. that sounds like complete bull to me.

 

when you're really really happy, it's like you're too big for your own body, and you want to share a piece of you with someone else.