As of late I feel so alone.. My "best friend" of 7 years, and I have grown apart, she was the only person I could talk to now we never talk and I never see her. The only time .. or it feels this way at least... is when she needs something. Like a ride to a concert, to sell tickets to her play. I wish that sometimes somethings stayed the same, but thats not life. I havent REALLY seen her since 2 weeks before Christmas. I only saw her at her surprise b-day or at her play ... all of which lasted about 10 mins of conversation. I've been trying really hard to be happy, but it doesn't seem to play out right.You know really the only thing I look forward to is going to work, the only place I feel HAPPY! ah.. I guess everything will eventually blow over.
yeah all i can say is that i know how you feel i feel pretty lonely lately myself, especially when i get off work at 3 in the morning it's like no one else exists... i don't know how to make it any better in any way but i do know what you're going through it does get better {{hugs}}
I have two friends I ever talk to... one of them has stopped talking to anybody, but the other is still willing to listen to me talk on the phone every day and play online games with me. He's so awesome. I love him (in a friend kind of way).
I would.nt worry 2 much your still young , you will make plenty of new friends. But if your that bothered about your friend, phone her up, and ask her y she has stopped calling .
Oh man, I know exactly how you feel... I'd give anything for a true best friend right now, as I haven't been close with my best friend in about six months (she ditched me for her girlfriend), and we'd been friends for over ten years. It sucks. I don't know what to do either. I've just made other friends and things have improved, I guess. Good luck.
thats sad to hear. growing up ive been through alot of best friends so i know how you feel. and im best friends with a girl from america at the moment and shes going back soon so weve only got a short amount of time left. what you need to do is talk to her. tell her how you feel,shes been your best mate for a while so she will be easy to talk to and im sure she will listen too. if you feel as though its coming to an end, go out, have fun, meet new people,find a new best friend. you will never know if you dont make an effort. try not to be lonely and sad, because it wont attract anyone to you. if that doesnt work then i dont know what else to say but i can be your best "internet pal" if you like? give it a go. peace and love sis xxxxx
oh...we all feel lonely smtimes but thanks god it'a only temporary... i'm sure "everythng is gonna be alright" a silly thing to say but it's true
apparently the beatles always use to say 'something will happen' as long as you dont hide yourself away in your house, it does. big hug to ya xxx
Ah, I've been feeling the same way as of late. I was born and raised in Arizona, and I've made all of my best friends there. My friends and I were basically mirror images of each other- we could finish each others sentences, shared the same hobbies, likes/dislikes etc. After I graduated highschool, I moved east, to here in Buffalo NY, as my uncle offered me a job roofing for good money, under the table. Since I've been here, I've just found it so bland. I long to go back home more than anything, but I dont have the funds to do so at the moment. I just feel like I made such a stupid mistake coming here and basically abandoning the people I've grown up with. Ahh, Im just so lost.
Yeah, that is so true...whatever you do, don't hide from the world, get out, and everything will be alright, i know its a cliche but its damm tru! *HUGS*
I have 3 real friends now. One of which I haven't talked to in months because she can't for complicated reasons, another that I only see at school, and another that refuses to do anything but sing along with his music and respond "Your mom," to every single thing I say (on the phone, which is the only way we can talk). I've just been going to bed really early lately... for months I've felt isolated.
friendships and i never were a close thing. i go through spurts of having friends and hanging out and then most of the time, i'm a hermit. so yeah lonely has become my friend throughout it all. it's almost become a comfort for me.
believe it or not. I no exactly how you feel. The same thing just happened to me 6 months ago! Its sucks... it really does. One day they just said... "i am tired of being your best friend"( I swear, they ACTUALLY said that!)It hurts...bad. And a lot of it was because of a love interest... im sorry. I feel for you. seriously.
