I am 18 years old and just told my dad that i have been with my girlfriend for 11 months and that i am bisexual. Me comming out to him was totally by accident, and i dont know what to do. He isnt quite ok with the idea. He said things like it kinda pisses me off and your too pretty for that. What am i supposed to do? and also my grandma thinks that there is not such thing as bisexuality and that your either one or the other and if you claim that you are your just kinky... what could i do for that?
Their just ignorant, do what you want to do and be happy, if your family doesn't like it then don't let it bother you because your not going to change the minds of the older generation unless they don't really mean what they say.
yea i guess your right, it just bugs me thats all, like saying your too pretty for that, like what the hell.... and ugh well i dunno its just frustrating thats all
It may take some time for the initial shock to ware off. my uncle came out as gay some time after college. my grandad banned him from the house forever. but a few years later, (im not sure how long it was) they missed him too much and he was fully accepted into the family, along with his life partner later on. So it may just take some time for your family to come to terms with whole idea.
ignore them. you know what YOU are, dont listen to them! and if you love your gf that much to where youre with her for 11 months, you gotta ignore them!
Yea, I know it's easier said then done, that's the biggest reason I haven't came out to my family or really anyone except the guy's I've had realationships with... I was so embarrased when my Mom found out I went to a strip club... so I just made up an excuse to why I had to go along with the guys....
Ouch :& Well, I have to agree with everyone else, I guess. What your family said is complete BS, but I guess you know that already.
