So, right now i'm in the worst position ever. let me make a long story really short.... My dad meet this woman, she has two daughters. i meet the youngest, she's 17 her name is meghn. and we are like clones. it's so insane, where like the same person. time goes on and my dad and this lady start dating. so me and meg are now together all the time. she has a boy friend too. but one night we're on the coach and i start flirting with her right, and to make a long story short, we make love. after this happens, we are together all the time. the best partner i've every had, but one night we're out with my friend and we have a couple of drinks, but not enough to get drunk. and we crash at his place. so i'm sleeping on the floor and they sleep together. 2 minutes pass and she starts taking off his pant. at that moment i was so pissed, the only thing i could do was lay there for awhile in anger. i know i should have saw it coming. so i leave the house pis.sed and heart broken so then see breaks up with her b/f and starts going out it with my once good friend. they're apart now and i'm around her all the time, and i still love her. even though she doesn't feel the same, and my dad just recently asked her mom to marry him. what do i do??? i feel so confusied. do i just do nothing???
Man that really sucks. The best way out I see if to find a girlfriend. One that won't sleep around with everyone. That will help get your mind off of her (atleast some). Good luck.
yeah, i guess i'll have to do both of those sooner or later. but does it make me a bad person for doing this. is it wrong to think of her like thta???
It's not "wrong" of you to think of her like that, because you liked her before your dad and her mom were engaged...furthermore, you aren't blood-related, and it sounds like you have a lot in common and are attracted to one-another. I think you two should sit down and have a very serious talk. Obviously you are going to need to learn to get along somehow because you are going to be family, and after your folks get married, it HAS to be platonic. It might not happen overnight, but it sounds like you two have enough in common to become friends. Also, you've seen how she can sleep around - you know she's not someone you'd want to be in a romantic relationship with. You have to let her know how you feel, but also tell her how things have to be between you two so that family gatherings aren't awkward for the rest of your life. Make peace, become good platonic friends (it takes work but can be done over time), and things should be okay. You'll find the right person for you in the long run, anyway
Definitely go somewhere your parents are not, alone, and just tell her honestly how you feel about what's been going on, how it gives you conflicting feelings, how it hurts, and also how you both know it can't continue that way since your parents are kind of getting married and it would be just a scodge bit on the awkward side if you two were dating. Tell her that you know you two will need to deal with each other as family for the long haul, so you'd like to eventually get to a point where you two can be platonic friends, because that makes things way more pleasant for the both of you. Other than that, I don't have any more advice...I've never been in a situation like this and I don't know you guys, so this is all I can give you. I hope it all works out Peace!
no offense dude, but this chick seems loose as hell it's pointless to try to tame something that isn't ready - never works out cut it as a loss, try to get over it, and just be friendly toward her
Guitar Mann - treat her like a sister in the future. Lock away that sexual experience with her as a memory. I have met women i have made love to when I was younger many years later, when we we married to others. We both remembered how it was with each other, but that was then, this is now. Be cool with her. She will be your sister soon.
the step sister thing is not an issue, YOU ARE NOT RELATED.........loose or not if you love her tell her how you feel, if she feels the same go for it, if she doesn't feel the same move on.
Ouch... that was definitely not cool of her to do. I wouldn't want to be with someone who did that to me. That really hurts though. I'm sorry to hear that. I would tell her how much it hurt you when she did that... that was quite rude, to say the least. Girls suck.
yeah. things seem to be getting harder. just last night we had this great conversation about philosophy while we walked about 4 miles. i had so much fun with her. she told me how it was hard to talk to people, and how i understood her. this makes me want to say something about how i still love her, but if i do i'm scared it might break the friendship we have. i want to be with her, even though she hurt me. and it doesn't help that we live together.
i think you should try to stay away from each other because you will then fall out of love. And when her mom and your dad get married, then you would have legally fucked your half sister ,thats kinda gross
