So this april, after 4.5 years of bliss, my girlfriend dumped me for her dealer, after getting fucked up on acid, e and ketamine and falling in love as a direct result of the drugs. We tried to maintain our friendship, since we were friends before we dated and we've always been good friends. Fast forward to now. She bullshits everyone, sells drugs, and has my computer, and drum machine, and may now be a car thief. She was supposed to send the drum machine to me ages ago, and the computer once I payed back her share of the cost for it. I need the computer for my portfolio for school, and she has (yet again) said she'll get it together and take care of it for me and (yet again) fucked off and done nothing of the sort. My only options are a) wait for her to come back into contact and try and light a fire under her shapely ass, or b) have her reliable brother whom I work for go in and just grab everything and ship it to me. I dunno. a) is iffy, but b) means losing her as a friend, most likely. She's always been honest with me, and on the occasions when she tried not to be she always broke down and admitted it. She's a genuinely good person, or at least she was. when we talk, she claims everyone in the old crew is sober and got their shit together, but then things happen like cars going missing and people disapearing from work for days. Maybe the girl I loved is already dead and replaced by this freak. I don't wanna just give up on her though. She's stood by me through some fucked up shit. I think I'm gonna go bang my head on the wall for a while.
i vote get the brother to grab yoru stuff for you. you say she tells you the truth but someoene who does that many drugs and steals shit isnt trustowrthy... time to get your crap and not look back, imho