he wants to get in my butt.

He keeps fingering me there while eating me out and fingering me in my vagina so obviously he really likes it... and maybe would like it for me to finger him also? But no thanks like I know he'd love it but that just grosses me out... but last night we were fucking and he tried to get inside my butt and I'm like... no... not in there... like I'm scared! I'm so fucking sore from the fingering alone so I can't imagine from his cock...

 

The Doctor is in !!!!!!!

 

like I'd appreciate helpful comments thanks...

 

If you're not comfortable with it, tell him!

It probably hurts because you aren't using lubricant. Lubricant DEFINITELY makes a difference. If you're at all interested in doing it, work up to the penis. And if he's any kind of man, he'll understand that you can't go in with the penis right away...patience!

Talk to him about it...and most importantly if you do try it...remember one thing: RELAX!

 

Well... we're not even dating... we just... have sex... lol I don't know what we are. But it doesn't hurt when he fingers me... actually I love it especially at the same time as the vagina... love it... but the next day I can't sit down.

 

It's because your anus is irritated. Use lubricant...trust me.

 

should I use any type of lube or should I get those special butt ones?

 

DO NOT USE OIL BASED...it will give you yeast infections. And silicone makes condoms break down, so I would go with a water based lubricant.

 

I dunno... I found the best lube for fingering a girls ass was always just her own natural lube and some saliva.

However, if you decide to have actual anal sex I'd suggest a silicone based lube.

 

If she plans on using a condom, silicone will make it breakdown...that's why waterbased is the best choice.

 

Don't do anything that you don't feel like doing, hun.

 

Dont do it baby!

You are very young and the guy does it with all of them.
Dont do it.
You are not ready for it and you dont even know him in fact so stay away from it.

It is best for oyu that if you do soemthing like that it is with someone you are tuely with and not this guy who maybe dont even care for you.
It was him who should have taken care of using lubricants, and the fact that he didnt knwoing its going to hurt oyu next day, just show how much he doesnt care about you.
He just use you for sex, and dont give a damn, so dont do it.

 

Don't let him man handle you and hurt you, doll, that's not caring and/or loving you.

 

Who doesn't want to get in your butt?

Party in Penny's butt!!! Tomorrow at 10:00. BYOB.

 

You're right about the oil based lubricantsdamaging condoms, but wrong about silicon based lubricants doing so.

Here are a couple of links for your education:

http://www.douglascountyaidsproject.org/condominstructions.html
https://www.quikcondoms.com/content.jsp?ch=condom_doc&id=131#silicon

 

The thing is, what do you want?

If you want it for him then dont do it.

 

waterbased and silicone are both fine for any kind of condom, its only oilbased that fucks with condoms bad

my bf tried this last night, funnily enough. not fingering, but put the head of his cock against my ass. it felt good, buuut... id said we had to use a condom for that (cleanliness issues on my part, the whole concept of him putting his penis unprotected into my ass is nasty) and i also was having some, um, issues earlier that day taht were resolved with some bismuth/pepto bismol. i think you need to talk it over with him, while you two are sober, before you start making out - talk about what you are and arent comfortable with and how the fingering makes you sore (and pick up som elube while youre at it)

 

Buttsex is awesome. Just go get some Platinum WET.

Silicone is a trillion times better than water based. And it doesn't break down condoms.

w00t buttsex. Make sure you play with it a LOT before you go for the gold, though. And when he's first getting it in, have him stop every little bit and just hold it there. Once you get past the initial "Oh man, this is gonna suck... this HURTS" and you almost tell him to take it out, then it's the best thing in the world.

 

We like K-Y warming Liquid and it doesn't taste bad.

Take your time and relax. I think a condom is a good idea especially for the beginner.

 

just go slow...there are different positions that relax the anus and open it up a little more...the doggy style one isn't one of those, unless you pay attention to the muscle tension...just don't rush into it, use lots of lube, and you'll be fine....
also, you be in control, not him...
yes, guys do like you to finger their ass. I, myself am one of them...so if its what he wants, maybe you should try it, cause he'll really like it....