i have lost my true love a few years back and was rejected by a 2 girls i really liked last year.:sniff1: and now im trying to find people to befriend on here but no one will.this year i thought of making suicide but did'nt.:bigcry:
Bummer. Rejection always sucks. But as for trying to find people to befriend here, dude you've only posted 6 times. You gotta be patient...I didn't even know you existed until I came across this thread. As for suicide: well it's a good thing you didn't cuz then I wouldn't be talking to you and a lot of people would have been hurt by your death. Not to mention it would have been a waste of such a young life with so much to look forward to. Anyway, if you wanna talk you can pm me or post here. I'm quite sure i won't be the only one who will be posting in this thread.
Indeed. I've been here longer than you and still no-one knows me. >.< I do know how a lost love and rejection feels. =/ I'm still real torn up over my last. She was perfect for me...we got on so well...so happy. And...well...I trusted her completely, more than I trusted anyone, she knew things no-one else knows about me...I don't tell people much about me to be honest...I'm scared of people...in general...and, well, then after a year and a few months she breaks it off, within a week (apparently still loving me...) she's going out with someone new...and to add to this is the fact it appears she had cheated on me some months prior and had lied to me about various other things...well...anyway...>.< I won't hi-jack the thread, just to say...things aren't easy for any of us, but...we survive...we grow, and things get better...just...you have to believe that things will get better or there's nothing. As for the suicide thing, it's good you didn't. I self harm (and there's nothing wrong with that in itself, it's...stress relief) which is bad enough (well, it's harmless but nor does it solve anything) but suicide is a lot worse. I once attempted it, though whether it was a cry for help or an actual attempt? I don't know. The point is at the time as far as I'm aware I truly was trying to kill myself (I mean, how well do we know what we do? So many layers to thoughts), but unfortunately I mucked it up...whether that was intentionally done by my subconcious or just a stupid error I don't know, but what I do know is I got to see the effect it had on those around me. I witnessed the effects my death would have, without dying. Even just the attempt affected...well...it affected my parents and a friend (I don't really know that many people, so not many to upset) anyway, but, to see how upset they were made me realise what my death would do to them. It's not a nice thing to do to anyone. I won't say it's selfish, because I don't believe it is selfish. But it doesn't change that suicide isn't nice on those you care about. It should be a last ditch resort...if anything...and you should take as many of the bastards out with you...that's by the by though. Things WILL get better for you. That I can promise. Maybe not tomorrow, maybe not even next year, but they will get better.
its better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all. I long for what it feels like, just to have that certain someone.. but your 14 and you have your whole life ahead of you...which will bring many good and bad times. Just remember the good.
As bad as things seem sometimes, it will get better, rejection never feels good but we all go through it, a lot, when you get rejected move on try again, there is always some one for every one. If you want to make some good friends , post a thread and just ask if any one wants to be your friend, i am sure you will get a lot of replies.
Stuff like that doesn't actually matter when you're 14, I found out. Within six months, you'll just laugh at yourself for being such a pussfag. Happened with me.
OMG, you've lost you TRUE LOVE FEW YEARS AGO, and you are 14? When was than, when you were 11? And you got recejted by 2 girls, wow, what a terrible life you've had.
The proble isn't that he is too young, the problem is that he is toooooooo dramatic and not been realistic.
u might think life won't become normal after breakingup with ur gf but time heals slowly and always let it go if it urs will comeback to you,sometimes fate put wrong ones in our life so that when we meet the right one we never let go or hurt them, just be patient and try to occupy ur self with anything you like..
Yea man I'm dealing with some rejection myself, and it does suck. If you ever wanna talk my screen name is metalhead03144.
