could the HF hang-up caller please stop calling me at 3:00 am?

She said the caller who called at 3am and you jumped right in defending yourself. You made it obvious that you thought it was about you, and then got mad because you were called out. I didn't say you did something wrong. Just saying she didn't make you look psycho. Relax.

And are you guys sure that's not a man?

Edit: if she was on the forums, wouldn't it have made sense to ask if she was busy or not first?

 

I don't understand why you would give your number to a lot of people on the internet if you didn't want 3am phone calls and for your family to know you are an internet addict...

 

You know damn well if I called at like 3am on a Tuesday night, you'd probably be pissed.

 

We weren't Really Talking and I Thought She'd Say No...

I was Defending myself because I knew She Thought the Caller was me Who Called at 3am...

Is Who a man???

 

You could've defended yourself in private if you didn't want people to know that you were the one being passively accused.

And I'm referring to the guy in your signature.

 

The Person in my Sig is a Woman...

Very Funny...

X.x

Anyway...This is Old News Now...

 

Yeah...She's Probably Going to Read that Comment Now as Well...

 

What is old news now? The guy in your sig, or this phone call business?

 

Who?

 

This Whole Thread...

And Stop being so Rude...

 

Well I Put Her Usernames Above Her Pictures...

 

If this thread is old news, why did you come back to reply to what I wrote the other day, instead of writing it off as a waste of time? I wasn't planning on posting in here any more until I was asked a question. I still think this whole thread should've been locked or deleted from the start as this is of a private nature and does not belong in a public forum.

 

I Didn't Start This Thread...

 

You have helped contribute and carry it forward as much as anybody else was my point.

 

Aww Didums...

 

This is the M.O. of this user... and anyone engaging in the dramas are contributing to them as well. My observation is that offense is not only taken at things posted here but actively pursued... particularly related to the posts of some folks. When drama isn't being sculpted out of otherwise innocuous comments it's being created by using photos of other people, inventing diseases to enlist pity, pantomiming relationships to engage peoples' emotions.

I fully expect an indignant response to this post... I couldn't care less. People's emotions have been jerked around- and for all appearances it seems for the purpose of this user's entertainment. This member appears to have deliberately contributed and carried forward the dramas in order to enlist other members in her own victimization- to create situations where they can feel shamed and to recruit others in her game.

Why settle something privately when you can make a show of being hurt? Sure, she didn't start the thread but she engaged in a manner that left no question that she was being victimized. She did it as visibly as she possibly could... and now she's ridiculing you for pointing it out.

By taking part in the dramas you are playing her game... as am I by making this post... it all adds up to attention and emotional manipulation. This user is a master at that art-- whipping things into a frenzy then watching as people she clearly couldn't care less about take sides in her dramas and turn on one another. It is a cold, calculated game and we are all pawns in it.

 

I Suppose you mean me...

 

Did you give your number out to a person over the internet?