How likely is it that I am going to get pregnant?

I am freaking out a bit. I had a lot of sex while I was ovulating and we did not use condoms and I am not on birth control. I am sure he pulled out in plenty of time though. I trust him a lot.
I was really fertile during the time and we prob had sex about 10 times...please tell me I have nothing to worry about and will have a period in two weeks...
How early can I take a pregnancy test to put my mind at ease. I got pregnant from someone pulling out before and I am really furtile.
I'm totally trying to not worry about this but I would be sooo afraid if I was pregnant because emotionaly I couldn't handle having another abortion, but don't want a child right now and he has made it perfectly clear he really doesn't want another child right now.
How early can I take a test? I last had sex on Monday. Do you think i am OK?

 

so, um, why were you dumb enough to have sex with -no- contraceptives/birth contorl at all?

anyway. get a preg test, if its too late for the morning after pill

 

WHY would you do something so incredibly stupid?

Yeah you have a reason to worry. A big one.

 

You "trust him a lot"? It's not a matter of trust - it's a matter of biology. His penis, your vagina, his sperm, your egg...it's what nature does unless you take steps to block it. Unless I'm missing something here, you've already dealt with consequences once, and now you've gone and done something else that's incredibly risky. Why on earth would you not use condoms, or the pill, or something?
I'm not trying to rag on you or be too harsh, but honestly, just don't expect a lot of sympathy. I sincerely hope that you aren't pregnant, because unwanted pregnancies aren't something to be wished on someone as a learning device, but nonetheless I hope that you do treat this particular issue with more care in the future. You're playing with fire.

 

I know I'm stupid for this. And what makes me even more stupid is that he had condoms and neither of us just ever though to use one when we were in the moment. I was honestly just blown away at how turned on I was and perfect we were together in bed...it was so good I cried afterwards and I had never done that before.
I don't know if it's just psychosematic or not but today I started feeling naseau and have no appetite and feel very crampy (I'm not having pms. I have never had an early period). I even went to the drug store but couldn't get a pregnancy test. I was just too embarassed and kinda ashamed-I know that statment didn't assure any of you that I am not stupid about this.
If I am pregnant I don't know how he would react. I wonder if it would be wrong to just have an abortion and not tell him. I mean he is just getting out of the military and wants to go back to cllege and has the money and opportunity to do it. His parents don't sounds like the most supportive so he's never had a chance to believe in himself. I honestly think he is started to realize how great he is and I am afraid a pregnancy would resurface mass insecurities he has. But then I know terminating it without asking him first would be wrong and that he does inside hide how much he wants a family and I think having that would gain him more access and overnight visitation with his current daughter. The courts would be more likely to award him more time if he has a family enviorment for her, rather that one of being a complete bachelor. But god I am sooooo young and am just starting to get my career back after a slump and want to go to grad school in the spring and still work and that would be taken away if I was pregnant and kept it. I think if I told him he would disagree with me having an abortion and if he disagreed in the least I would feel moraly obligated to not do it. I know I would eventually be happy...but god now is sooooo not the time for this ):
Sorry this is so long. Also, I know I was ridiculous for not using birth control. I was just soooo caught up in the moment...yes everytime.
I made him get a blood test to prove he was std free, but I was too stupid and selfish to go on birth control. I know that is so selfish.
Do you think a pregnancy test would detect pregnancy this early?

 

I'm going to go get a test I can't take it anymore

 

The test was positive-a light positive. I am going for a blood test next week I told my boyfriend and he handled it great. I am hoping I am not pregnant. If I am I am okay with it though. I love him and how no down he's going to be a killer husband and father if I'm pregnant.

 

Getting caught up in the moment is no excuse. You are 25yrs old for gods sakes. You aren't a fucking kid.

Sounds to me like you have a history of irresponsible behavior. Heaven help this child if you have it...sounds like you aren't grown enough to take care of your own life, let alone some one elses.

 

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What you did is about as smart as believing someone who says "I'm from the government and I am here to help you."

 

I have a feeling yer knocked up

 

hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa will you be my baby daddy until I start showing? then you have to make me an honest woman

 

you arent honest already?

 

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I'm going to cut her some slack as shit happens and hell we've all pulled dumb moves once or thrice in our lives right? Condoms are your friend, just remember this for next time.

 

Thanks It's so true that everything happens for a reason though. If the blood test's ngative I will go on the pill because I can't stand the thought of not being skin to skin when he's inside of me. If it's not then he said everything will be okay and I trust him so I know it's true.

 

I knew when I was fifteen years old that having unprotected sex would get me knocked the fuck up. So I mozied on up to Planned Parenthood and got some baby prevention. Fifteen. I couldn't even drive. Or get a job.

And you're 25 and can't go up to your doctor's office and say, "Hey, I'm a fucking idiot and I want to pop out a few illegitimate children so the rest of the US will have to pay for them, via welfare... maybe you could help prevent this?"

It really isn't hard to not get pregnant. I don't know what it is with this rash of ridiculous pregnancies. Three of my cousins, four or five high school broads I know. Hot damn. I guess getting knocked up is the new "it" thing.

 

consider adoption? It may be the best move for your situation. Good luck!