Did you ever have so much drama and stress going on in your life and feel very confused to the point where it's hard to really talk to anyone about it... not cause lots of people don't at least know parts or most of it (or even almost all) but that you can't even grasp all the stress and though you need to talk to someone fully you wouldn't know how to express it so you don't?
Sometimes I think it's a good thing I keep the real important things to me or who I know I can trust but sometimes I just wish I could open up more because I think I would feel better- like after a good cry. The stress is killing me.
I'm so sad I don't even know if I can talk on the phone and I'm really high but thanks... I might just try to watch a movie soon because it might help take my mind of of things but I'll send a pm now.
just gimme your number :tongue: thing is, anything you say, it goes in and gets locked away, i don't judge i just try to help.. i'm seriously like my family's therapist...
ill give you my number too. thought you had it though! but i did just pm you.. it's just tough for me right now.
And also by talking about it to someone else somehow makes it feel more real than it does when you just think about it inside your own head. Yeah, I know what you're saying. I dunno what's causing you all that stress but my advice would be to focus on all the happy things in your life coz that will give you perspective and hopefully stops you from so much dwelling in the negative things... coz dwelling in it only makes things worse and makes it feel like there's no way out. If that makes sense... I hope things work out for you.
(((HUGS))) thank you... it basically deals with how i was ready to get out of a bad marriage and move and then my car had a major problem and the money is too much and he already knows im leaving and beign around sucks and there is no money. plus a couple of people are mad at me..... and other things like ive been sick. ill stop now... im trying just to think things will work the way they should work. and yeah, i need to get positive fast. the sooner i just laugh, relaxe, eat well, excercise-basically get healthy, il'll be fine... i know it
That is a lot to handle. But you're a strong lady, I'm sure you will be fine. Keep your chin up and focus on the wonderful future you will have once you've sorted out all the poopy stuff! Are you planning on moving to New York?
Awww... I've been there...sorta. Although, I booted my husband out and moved my current man in a month later. The transitional period was anything but easy. I had difficulty dealing with my emotions too. Because it was a complicated situation, it was difficult to confide in anyone. I had already fallen in love with the new man before I got the old one out. (-see, that sounds bad) Though I hadn't really physically cheated I still felt a strong sense of guilt. Anyways, the situations are probably completely different, but I remember being full to the brim with emotion, & having little to no outlet. Eventually, it dissipated and I was able to feel like I could breath again. I hope everything works out for the best! (((((((((Hugs)))))))))
Thanks btw...weave and sunstoned. Right now I'm still stressed but less stressed then I was days ago... just kinda sick of feeling sick and trying to get better there first. Trying to relax really helps with that.
Hey Hun.. I am so sorry that you are so stressed right now. If you need to chat just let me know. You have helped me through so much. You are great and strong person and I know that you will be fine after all the negative things pass.
You are here.... Feeling the way a person would when they have a garage (life) that has got seriously out of hand and now there is just so much stuff (obstacles and issues) they have to do something with it but becuase of the sheer quanity of the stuff they have no clue were to start cleaning (making changes). The longer you look at the pile in the garage (the obstacles and issues) the more you feel like there is just no way it can get cleaned ( your life straight). My advice pick one item at a time. Dont even begin to look at the big picture. With each little chip here and there you will get it done!
I've ran the conversation I would have about my current homelessness a dozen times, and I can't make it short or believable enough for anyone to offer anything but their freindly ear.. I wanted to thread it here but I don't know if I can tell the story from beginning to end without stopping to cry
