it was meant as a joke of sorts me coming here under the guise as a male.....it wasnt meant as anything else...and I didnt think it would create such a problem...many people here have more than one persona.....i didnt see my haveing two names as such a big thing...and it WASNT a secret....many people have known for months we never tried real hard to hide it....it was all over our guestbooks
Well we are married in a Special Way... So We Never Did Lie ABout the marriage Thread... And Willow was being Butch in that Thread...
I feel sorry for you both... i understand how hard it must be for you.... *hugs to you both* It's tricky... as, how things are, at the moment, there isn't much you can do but hold on i guess... Do you live far apart? How often do you see each other? My mother is a nosey one too lol And asks constantly bout friends, boys etc (although shes very good friends with my boyfriend) But she really has no right to say about your relationship with Gerri (as far as she knows Gerri's your friend right?! even though she may have her doubts) or chose your friends. I really do feel for the both of you...
I Have Decided to Just Go Ahead and Plan the move to be with Gerri... Currently I am Awaiting for my New passport... Then I Shall make Travel Arrangements...A Non Return Flight... Which will Happen Around the End of August...Leaving Plenty of time for Planning... Gerri's Family are Fine with me Coming... However...my Family...Are a Different Story... But I am Leaving... I Love Gerri... And She Loves me... Our Love is Perfect and we Simply must be Together...
Willow Jon - if you are 21 and she is 20 years younger, that owuld make her one year old. Please don't tell me....
Tell you what ????..............yes , I am aware of her age , my youngest son is EXACTLY the same age as her. Alex got me past the age thing. And NO......I am 46
the door is always open and swings both ways...if she decides i am too old , she is free to leave , and be happy elsewhere...my home is NOT a prison , and i love her whether shes with me or not.
When I am 46...She will be 71... The Gap is 25 Years... The Age Difference Does Not bother me at All... At First Gerri was Concerned About it...But After much Discussion and Reasurance She has Got Over that... What Really matters is Our Love and Connection... The Biggest Issue we Have is Facing Other People Opinons... Such as my mother...Who will Have Ageism and Homophobia to Deal with... I Can Honestly Say I will Love Gerri Forever...She has Had my Heart and Soul for Some Time... She is a Dedicated and Commited Partner...Who Goes Out of Her Way to make me Feel Loved and Happy... No One...Has Ever Loved me...As much as Gerri Does... I Can Never Let Her Go...I want to Spend my Life with Her... I am so Amazed that Her Family are Happy and Supportive of Our Relationship...And Willing to Let me Live with them... I Love Her so much...I am Willing to move to a Another Country...Into a Ready-made Family...To be with Her... Finding Her is the most Wonderful Thing that has Happened to me... I know She will make a Stand and Fight for me...If the Worse Comes to the Worse... We are very Happy and Inlove with One Another...Nothing and No One Can Ever Change that...
You are wonderful ALex , and I would do ANYTHING to assure your happiness . I LOVE you , and I promise to NEVER hurt you , ever.
As long as you're happy, screw what everyone else thinks. Your mom seems to love you WAAAY too much to disown you over you taking a step up to move out, especially since there won't be a surprise, since she already knows you're bi. There comes a time in most people's lives when they have to either literally or figuratively tell their parents to fuck off, and this seems like your time.
