Get limp for sex

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by stonedimmaculate, Jun 7, 2007.

  1. stonedimmaculate

    stonedimmaculate Member

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    I went to my girlfriends house and we kissed for a while, then we took our clothes off. We continued kissing and feeling eachother for probably around 45 minutes or so. I was hard for like this whole time, but when we decided that we wanted to have sex, and its almost as if all of the sudden i got limp. so we just continued kissing and just laying with eachother and stuff. Then when I had to go i was hard again. This same thing happened twice. It was alright because we were happy just laying with eachother but id still like to know what happened. I'm completely comfortable with her so the only thing i could think of was i was subconsciously nervous about doing it or i already had it up for a while. also this would be my first time, but not hers.

    Also i was wondering how sex fits into love. like, i dont know how to explain it, but can a good relationship become based upon sex and thats what its all about and would that ruin the relationship?
     
  2. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    "Laying with eachother"


    Laying what? Paving slabs? Bricks? Cement?

    To lie:
    I lie
    You lie
    She lies, he lies
    We lie
    They lie

    We were lying...

    It just annoys me. Little things...
     
  3. BlazingDervish

    BlazingDervish Banned

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    nits aside..

    Sounds like good ole fashioned subconscious nervousness.
     
  4. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    It is called "performance anxiety", and it is quite common for teenagers just starting out on their sexual adventures. My advice is just relax, and let it flow naturally - but if you do have sex, wear a condom.
     
  5. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    Yeah, nitty. But nits should be treated before they spread to someone else:)
     
  6. EazyE

    EazyE Senior Member

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    Your subconscious is telling you to suck a dick, not a clit.
     

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