Later on in my dream... I had a girlfriend. Though... it was weird as I was older then I actually am. Anyways, this girl...it's embarassing to say but... I loved her. And she loved me. We were made for eachother... but it was only a dream. And I knew it, I said it in my dream.. "I know I'm dreaming... I wish I didn't have to wake up." Sometimes I know when I'm dreaming, like that time I did. I knew she wasn't real but.. when I woke up I was almost depressed.... over a dream. I don't get it. In the dream I hugged her and told her I loved her and she told me that back. I told her I'd be with her forever. But I knew it was only a dream. When I think about it, I feel so dumb, but I seriously LOVE that girl in my dream. She's perfect for me... Anyways.. thanks for listening. I had to tell someone.
It sounds wonderful! .. but also sad at the same time, because you knew it wasn't real.. Probably the same feelings that Cinderella had when she was dancing with the prince at the ball.. Extremly happy to finally dance and be so close to tha man she always adored, and at the same time knowing that it wouldn't be forever. That her beautiful dress and her pumpkin wagon was only temporary.
It was more sad then wonderful... I can remember the dream so well... I hope I see her again tonight. Maybe if I think hard enough... Is there anyway to make it more of a chance to dream what you want to dream? Last night's dream was amazing. I would kill to see my dream girl again.
yeah i know exactly what you mean i had that too. It was a girl that i had loved more than any other (real) girl, and i woke up feeling depressed just like you. This was like a year ago, i havent told anybody but i thought that it would fit here. I got over it because i know its not real, and theres nothing anybody can do. But the girls i date are ok but that one dream girl nothing compares to. I doubt i will ever forget the dream unless i find the actual person.
I thought I might of been alone on this one... I'm glad there is someone else. Maybe we love these people more then anyone because our mind created them, so we created someone who bonds with us perfectly. Unless it was just a random dream. Either way, that girl was unbelieveable. We didn't do anything sexual, by the way. We hugged a lot. She told me some things in my dream, things like "I want to be with you forever" And then we'd hug... not some sort of fake, uncaring hug. Like... the craziest most affectionate hugging. And it was just hugging. It's so hard to explain!! You feel like your life is complete, as if you found your life partner. That's it, this is the person you'll spend eternity with... and then... you wake up. It's all over. The girl you'd give up your life for is gone...
yeah it was cool reading your post because its the same thing that happened to me and it feels good knowing that someone else understands this. I mean i diddnt even try explaining this dream to anybody just because it kinda sounds stupid. Yeah your theory about our mind creating them sounds logical i wouldnt know what else to think. I am not an emotional person whatsoever in real life, but when i woke up, i felt like crying like my eyes watered up and shit. Its like i have never met a girl perfect enough to love this much. I dont really think i regret having the dream because it has shown me what its like to actually love. After the dream, i had then realized that i have never actually been in love. The dream showed me how happy i can possibly be. On the other hand, i don't like it because it was basically just my mind completely fucking with me. I say this because in the dream i thought that it was completely real, and i was ready to stay with her forever, then when i woke up, i felt betrayed by my own mind.
Wow man... I don't know what to say. You literally said everything I felt, and still feel. I watered up a bit too when I woke up... you know, you think you love the girl you're with but... wow. What we felt in those dreams was the real love. You know when people talk about like.. new girlfriends and stuff, "oh I love them!". Yeah, you know what love is? lol... nobody knows love until they had this sort of dream. Most intense dream I've ever had. I loved it, and I hated it. For the exact same reasons as you. I'm glad I went through it though.... it really makes you think about the human mind and it's potential.
yeah i feel ya. I just hope sometime in my life i can find the real thing, instead of a stupid mind trick. And i bet that there are people out there that have this kind of relationship. But dreams are on a whole nother level than reality, so im not sure. So if i think of it that way, than i hope i have alot more of those special dreams. This whole thing just makes me wonder if there is someone out there that actually IS that perfect for me. Damn i cant stop thinking about it.
My amateur perception on this... You never know, maybe your mind is trying to tell you "HEY, GET YOUR ASS UP AND LOOK FOR THIS GIRL SHES SOMEWHERE REALLY CLOSE TO YOU!" I mean anything is possible, I've heard of people dreaming of others whom they have never met and soon after they meet them and are in awe. Your thoughts?
I had this kind of dream. Only I had to save this girl and it was set in like a depressing landscape with a small pond and a few steps going up a hill. The girl was on the hill and I was trying to reach her. I loved her and I bet she loved me more. But when i woke up I felt really sorry for the girl. Like as though I was thinking how I could have saved her. Dreams are like the universe- Mysterious.
Maybe... when I think of people I know, I can't seem to find anyone I loved as much as that girl. Maybe I like someone subconsciencely? And I don't even know it...? Bope.. I don't know. o.o
