ARG!! Can anyone answer this awkward question?

I am so sick of coming up with excuses for why I can't meet my various bootycalls because I'm on the rag. Is there any way of telling a guy its that time of the month without totally grossing them out?

 

Just tell him the truth. It shouldn't gross him out, its completely natural. In my experience it never seemed to make a difference to the guy. If you are shy about it just say not this week. Any guy with half a brain should be able to figure that one out

 

why would you want to have sex with someone who is so retarded that they're intimidated by normal bodily functions?

 

Sure, I would would tell you I dont care. Put a towel under you and dont look down. JUicy!

 

Say "My vagina is bleeding" haha. Just tell them subtly.

 

i have to agree just tell him the truth, he will understand, and shouldnt be to grossed out if you are on the rag. Its a natural thing that happens to all girls

 

ah thats true, but you have to admit I mean, it is a touchy subject right? I mean no guy *wants* to hear that.

 

Actually, as I said before, most guys don't care. It's not a touchy subject with them. They know the facts of life and if they don't they need to learn them. In fact most guys don't even consider that a good excuse not to have sex. To be honest, a good orgasm helps cramps.

 

well the fact of the matter is, I don't have "relationships" and I don't want to get into personal info like that, and like to the person who said that if you tell them subtly that they'll get the hint, well this is an exact exerpt from a convo I had not minutes before:
"Hey so you didn't call me back yesterday."
ME- "Oh yea, well I worked late and junk."
"Ok well do you want to hook up sometime?"
"Um, I'm kind of busy this week..."
"Ok well like whats your schedule like?"
"Its not so much time allotment, so much as a biological thing.."
"Oh I see, ok so then what about this weekend?"
"Um its hard to say when I might be available, it varies with this sort of thing..."
"Uh huh... well what are you doing tonight?"
"I'm not sure if I'm being clear, but I'm on my period."
"Oh! you should have just said that, ok next week"

haha I can see how some guys would be ok with it, but like not all of them are as smart as some of the girls in this forum are giving them credit for XD just kidding

but jesus! seriously can you say desparate?? I mean I was giving him nothing but nos left right and centre, fucking drop it and move on to your other chick!! fuck shit!

 

ok well after reading it over, the convo was WAY longer than that I just really wrote the basics haha

 

"sorry, its that time of the month and i dont feel comfortable with it at this time"...should do it, non?

Or if you do feel comfortable "Sorry, its my time of the month...i mean id still be ok with it but its up to you, im thinking about what youd want, really"

Something like that
Thats what id say, anyway

As the others have said, it shouldnt be a prob for a guy

 

Hell, I don't know..show him a unused rag and smile sweetly.

 

LOL! just tell him i have my menstruations and odnt feel well, nextime oyu say you dont come he wont ask for more..

 

Well I can respect it if someone thinks that a period is gross. I kno it's natural and happens to everyone but it *is* gross to alot of people, including myself! I mean blood isn't a big thing for me, I don't mind it, but some people have a problem with blood, its just psychological with some people and therefore I try to be considerate of that, plus, I can only imagine how gross the idea would be of even just "discharge" to a guy, like they don't know alot about the vagina - I once knew this guy who didn't like giving head because he thought of the vagina as a garbage disposal - but then he didn;t know about the vaginal systems dischargings self cleaning thing, and I could have explained it to him, but hes not the type to listen, and I honestly don't care - let some other chick bitch to him about how a vagina isn't dirty, I don't even like getting head

so yea, it just seems a bit closed minded to not want to be with someone just because of an opinion. but thats just me, I tend to just accept everything if you havent guessed

On another note, not all guys are the same, some guys like menstration I don't know why, but again, just me lol

 

there, thats a helpful one! thank you

 

Garbage disposal!!?? gee, I learn everyday about guys!
and where did he got this idea from?

from where he comes from maybe? you should ahve told him that!
"you come from there, and if it is a garbage disposal, then you know what it make of you?
garbage!"

 

ahaha lol well he's canadian but he spends alot of time in new zealand and I find it funny that he has a sort of half accent, and he absolutely hates people from new zealand. he goes there to see his dad mostly
but yea, as a person he is just generally stubborn and has a rude and negative mindset... but hes really sexy so I dont care plus hes just a bootycall, I don't really care what he thinks

 

Ask him if he is a member of the red wings club.

If he says no, ask him if he wants to become one.
-fin-

-amend-
or ask yourself, would you like to join the club selfishly?

 

lol my boyfriend was recently enaugered into the red wings club

 

Please women just tell the guy, they won't be grossed out. Tell them the truth and your boundaries from the begining and there won't be a problem...The only time a guy will get upset or grossed out buty it is if you are with him and foreplay is moving right along and then all of the sudden you blurt it out. Something like i'm on my period (or I'm menstrating), so _____ is off limits, but I would be happy to give you head.

every mans dream, well other than without the whole period thing.