I have this recurring dream where my dad interrupts me and a girl. It's not a heavily recurring dream, I can only remember three of them from the last four years or so, but it just strikes me as really odd. In the most recent dream, I was stood up by someone. If it makes any difference, the people in the dreams are real people, usually those I'm involved with. In this dream, it was her who stood me up/ignored me. Hurt and kind of angry about this, I contacted someone else (another person I know from real life, never dated her but liked her at one point if it makes any difference). Actually, I can't remember whether she contacted me and told me how she felt first...but either way, I take the phone to my room to talk to her alone...only to find the rest of my family there. Yeah, that was another way this dream varied from the norm, it wasn't just my dad. Anyway, I left to find another place to talk alone...I think I ended up going around the house and back into my room, and this time it was just my dad there. I can't remember anything else before the dream ended. Second time...different person. We were standing outside my old school gates talking, and I kissed her. Suddenly, a car came down the road and beeped its horn...it was my dad, telling me to get in and he'd give me a lift back home (which makes no sense now I think about it, since it'd only be a five minute walk). I got in and we drove off, leaving her there. That's another thing about these dreams...I can't seem to say no to lifts, or ask people to go and leave me alone for a while. Maybe that's like me in real life, in a way. Either way, as casual as it sounded where I described driving off, it's never a case of "ok thanks see ya later"...it's frustrating, heart-wrenching and just overall annoying to be interrupted and then dragged away. Anyway, last one I remember...then-girlfriend's bedroom, it was our last night before I had to go home and we were planning on making the most of it . Then my dad came in and said something like "we're leaving in an hour son", and I replied "yeah, I'll be right down"...and again, he sat on the edge of the bed and just stayed there. He wasn't talking or even looking at us, he was just gazing off into space. After a while I realised thaht was it, so we went downstairs...still trying to find a chance for some alone time, but both our families were there. So am I going nuts? Because it feels like it :tongue:
Oh GOD that must be so annoying. I think I'd punch whoever it was in the face if they did that. =P Not really. lol I think I'm a bit like you though, depending on the situation, I can't say no. I posted something before about me having a dream with my dream girl, and near the ending of the dream, she had to leave. And I didn't even ask why. All I remember was that I kissed her.... feeling really damn sad knowing I'd never see her again. It was a lucid dream, by the way. I knew I wouldn't see her. I wasn't even shocked when I woke up, I just... got up... really sadly.
