i tell u about myself. im a serious type person. anytime im with my GF and making me a joke. i ignore it. when its my turn she also ignore. She always ask that why im to good and serious. When she said that she already done of my serious habits. she wants to be happy. can anyone give me some advice for this situation. or Pleased her.. how???
he's saying that he's a very serious person, and it sounds like his girlfriend wants him to lighten up a bit. okay, now the advice: lighten up! there's nothing wrong with having a laugh now and then. it fact, it's fantastic.
He needs to lighten up, and your advice is 'lighten up?'. Dont become a counsellor. I've had this problem with my girlfriend in the past. I'm prone to being a very quiet guy, and it looks quite often like I'm very serious. People say it to me, and it started to become a problem for her. I started to get worse, because I felt pressure and felt scared that it was going to ruin my relationship. The biggest problem was, I'm not serious, I'm just quiet. I'm extremely relaxed, have an extremely ironic sense of humour, and am capable of being very spontaneous. What was the problem? Simple: I kept this stuff in my imagination, but didnt express it verbally. Stressing about the situation didnt help either. Just try to relax. Some people perform worse under pressure. Like me. Relax, dont stress. She's with you for GOOD REASONS, and she's still with you! You have plenty of reasons why you should relax and be happy. Try to be more energetic, and release your thoughts with relative freedom. Take on a new hobby. Activity is the best tool for the imagination and creativity. May I suggest the hobby of improving your English? At least that way, people online can help you better. Not a major problem though. A lot of people here cant speak English, and that includes a significant number of people with huge post counts. Post count is not a statement of experience or intelligence. Good luck.
just be yourself, it works for me and the girls love it. Every girl tells me that im wild and crazy and i speak my mind so just do it
