Attraction to younger guys

P.s-i was just about to say that if youd have sex with a "consenting" 12 year old you should seek some guidance, but seeing as youre only 16 it may be a little different...just HOPEFULLY youll feel different by 18, 19, 20, or itll be a bad sign...but still, sex with 12 year olds...wrong imo

 

Well the old age deal again. I know not all that long ago in US society it was accepted for very you girls to be married and have kids but later for whatever reasons this practice was lobbied and lawed out. As a guy if I was young and some older good looking lady came on to me I dont think I would have cared if it was criminal or not but then guys tend to let thier thoughts come from a lower location, lol!


Consent oh the whole idea of it. I saw when we can prosecute a 14 year old as an adult for the crime they commited why then cant society accept a 14 year old being able to make adult sexual decisions?

Im not for it either way but it seems we allow to many double standards in the US and the world really. Being drunk is a legal loophole for women to scream date rape becuase they were nt in control of thier senses but that same excuse does not work for the guy being too drunk to make a decision not to have sex, or drivers not to drive ect.

As for the starter of this thread well what is it that creates the attraction for her? That might be overall what she is really looking for or something?

 

You've been taught that this was wrong by our American society, where as in other places having sex with children is considered the norm. What makes you think your views are right and their's are wrong?

Also consent comes with some sort of relative knowledge of what's going on, you couldn't convict a 1 year old of a crime if after you asked them about it they say "yaya". They're not aware of what your even asking, that would be rape.

Personally I would never want to have sex with a child, the thought does absolutely nothing for me, but I'd don't feel the need to judge anyone else who does.

 

sex with children is wrong. END OF STORY.

 

First of all please do NOT assume i am American...why would you assume that? I didnt assume you were Chinese, or Indian or Australian...so please use your brain and realise theres a world out there

Secondly there are no civilised places where sex with children is the "norm"...barely any places with what the majority of the western world sees as proper legal systems and acceptable attitudes where sex with small children is seen as a "yeah, fine, whatever" thing.

As for reason NOT to have sex with kids, please, reread my last posts
But a summary (and bluntly-a necessity with someone blind enough to consider sex with a child ok)

A-its unnatural (i.e-a child is not biologically mature) A child cannot reproduce. Girls dont have breasts or theyre small and developing, therefore theyre not designed to feed infants once birthed. Their genitals are not developed enough to accomodate a penis without pain or damage (fucking sickening) Boys genitals are also not fully formed and the majority could not biologically create life-nevermind look after a baby once born!

B-It is abuse (i.e a child is not EMOTIONALLY mature, knowledgeable enough to be fully aware and is therefore not in a position to consent-as they dont know exactly what theyre consenting to)-

How many 9, 10, 11 year olds know what chlamydia is and does to the body? How many know about AIDS? How many would know they need to visit a doctor if, say, they get an unnatural discharge? Just a few examples of how a child does not know what sex IS, what theyre "consenting" TO. All a child would know was how sex felt, and hey, touching genitals feels nice. So yeah, some children would say yeah, go ahead, that feels good. What they dont know is they could get diseased (or pregnant in the cases of older yet immature girls)
Also, children arent emotionally developed enough to know about all the complex issues at work with sex-power issues, love issues-its such a complex and advanced thing, made for adults. And i ask again, how many children know what a dildo is? What rape means? Its making me shudder even considering these things

C-Childhood is about taking in the world around you-not being touched up by troubled adults and therefore scarred for life!
A child has only just entered the world...even 8, 9 or 10 years, say, is still a very short time indeed...theres so much yet to know, to see, to learn. Basic, elementary stuff (and as i said before-sex is ADVANCED) How to spell simple words, to pronounce them, where certain countries are on a map...how they feel about religion, God, pop music...doing things like playing with dogs, going to the beach...make-believe and fantasy, expanding their imagination, living in their minds, hearts and souls...drawing pictures...THESE are CHILDHOOD things. These are things which need to be mastered BEFORE having sexual intercourse, or itd be abuse plain and simple.

D-Child abuse DOES stay with the child for life. I once knew a man who had "had sex" with a stranger at the age of 11. Yes, he had consented. And why exactly? Because it "felt nice", as i said above. And thats all he thought about, because he was a LITTLE BOY. As an adult man (28 when i knew him) he was extremely, extremely troubled. Hed had issues with sex ever since that day he "consented"...he now struggles with a porn addiction, sex addiction, chronic masturbation, paedophilia, and he has raped a girl (yes, ive called the police) All this stopped him from studying, getting a job, a relationship, kids of his own...all the usual things. All that from that one act, which to you is "ok".
This is not an uncommon story. Abuse casts a shadow as long as a lifetime

E-Child abuse teaches children that abuse is ok (see above)

There are a hundred more reason why this is wrong. Please....think further...

 

Goods points, verseau. The exact age at which someone is mature enough to make sexual decisions varies. There are probably some twelve-year-olds that could make that decision, but not very many. If a person is sexually mature and understands what could result, then I think they can decide. It needs to be an informed decision.

Besides, why should an adult want to have sex with a child? Once you get to be fifteen or sixteen, I think whether you want to fuck your teacher is pretty much up to you. At twelve, it's almost certainly abuse. Myself, I'm not sure what I'd do if one of my teachers had come onto me. I guess I'd see how I felt at the time, but I'd probably be kinda weirded out by the whole thing...

 

too old? how old are you looking for 12 year olds?

 

Well, about age... Some mature or look more mature faster than others. And if it's with the younger person's consent, the relationship has nothing wrong about it I guess.

 

Ahh you guys caught me

 

Just to let you know America didnt and isnt the place that made all the rules...

In England france germany italy spain pretty much all of the european states and countries it is outlawed to have sex with anyone under 16, sexual preditors may wish the age limit to be droped so they can screw anything that moves...its moraly wrong socialy unaccepted in 90% of the world, and anyone that would in all those countries deserves a lengthy stay in prison, where they can try the line of , a few little countries somewhere in back end of beyond allow it so i see it as right, you wouldnt last more than 5 mins untill your parents had to come and indentify you for the death certificate.

 

What are you talking about?

 

Dont ask me i just live here lol...

 

So I gotta ask, were you flooded by messages and offers from 12 year old boys or were they so creeped out that they left the site for good?

 

I think most of the guys in this forum don't see anything wrong with this because, to tell you the truth, we've all been super horny since the fifth grade. This was the kind of shit we dreampt about. That being said, I'm not in the fifth grade anymore, so I can see that it is pretty fucked up for an eighteen year old girl to go after middle-schoolers. This kind of thing can have a profound impact on the psychological development of someone in this age range. It isn't just about whether it would be fun or not.

 

humn. I dont really know what I think of this. I know when I was very young..I certainly would not have turned away much older nor regretted it. Jus sayin. Still wouldn't had it happened. So jus consider the other person as a guilty party as well in this. No harm..no foul is what is what i say if both are of age to fully understand what they are doing. Dont think all young people are as naive as you may think. Often they can be the agressors in most situations and smarter than the other.

 

....did it cross anybody's mind that it could've been a sarcastic comment? You totally just blew 3 pages of posts saying "OMG don't fuck babies".

If she was serious, does she need help? Probably. Is it wrong? In my opinion, hell yes. I like younger men, but that only goes as far as age of consent (that comes first), and personal maturity (haven't met anyone under 16 that I considered fuckable since I WAS under 16).

 

off topic , great picture Rue

 

Did it cross yours that its not really even a supermodel 18 year old girl but a sad old male pervert after little boys? lol...sadly, methinks it is

 

I am pretty sure she would have said if it was sarcasm haha

 

i was about 12 when i gave my first hand job.. and i was old enough to know sex is a big no no