Damn you beat me to it! though here is what I was going to post: and for all the parents out there... but seriously. Being grounded for one week isn't bad atall. THen you go and start calling your mum a bitch. She doesn't deserve that after bringing you up and giving you a place to live. And i agree with BraveSirRubin. I would beat your ass raw with a belt...maybe 2 depending on how much of a little shit you were until you learnt that the number of belts used in the beating is directly proportional to how twatty you are...
That isn't very nice to cut some of your hair for punishment. I remember back in high school the same thing happened to my friend, only difference they cut off six inches the first time and shaved him completely the second time. The odd thing was parents told him, "Ozzie, we don't mind you drinking or smoking (mj) but you gotta be careful with cigs". Oh well.
What does hitting the kid do? I was hit as a child and that only made me want to continue what I was doing. I am not going to stand for being hit no matter who the person hitting me is. Hitting the kid may stop him temporarily but he will continue his actions in the long run. Plus, it is a traumatic event. I remember a lot of times where I was hit and it isnt a positive event. It didnt teach me anything positive, it didnt fix anything, it did teach me that hitting is ok and made me detached from my family. I'll bet that for most parents hitting a kid is just part of getting out their anger (it is a coping method). That isnt good. Instead of hitting your kid, meditate.
^^parents are afraid to use physical discipline. THere's a different between hitting a kid when he is out of line and abusing them. In my experiece kids that were taught proper discipline via afew hits/spankngs are better off in theworld than those parents who didn't have the balls to discipline their children. A cuff upside the head gets results; asking your kid to stop nicely doesn't, it only allows your child to stomp all over you.
What does hitting do? Usually a lot... oooooh you were hit as a kid. big deal so was I. And now look, I actually respect my parents and have a good relationship. I would thank then for hitting me as it stopped me growing up to be another twat that society has to deal with. What does hitting a child teach? Well in my case, it taught me that: being a little shit = a smack round the face. And as that hurt I soon learnt: Not being a little shit = no smack around the face. See where I am going with this? I also agree with TheShow, I was only hit when I deserved it. Not just beaten when my parents were angry or whatever. I also agree that a kid who has been diciplined well (via a good smack round the head rather than "ooooh go sit on the naughty step blah blah i dont have an balls") will grow up a better person. It helps to teach about how things will be in the world....If you are a twat to some people, you will get yor ass kicked. I know that i would hit my kid if he/she was a little twat and thought they could do whatever they wanted..
I was smart enough to actually listen to my parents when they talked to me instead of having to hit me, when they hit me i would laugh at them and they soon realized i comprehended alot better by just sitting down and talking to me. I dont believe in hitting kids i think they should know right from wrong already and if your parents didnt teach you that then they failed already.
jeeze kid how the fuck are you gonna treat your mom like that I'll bet anything you're a little spoiled bitch
Be nice to her! She wasn't upset about you smoking! So what if you're grounded for a week, I got busted once, it wasn't very nice, I'll tell ya! And still I won't call my mom a bitch, she's actually very caring.