any women here want a male 'wife'?

would you like to have a man who will stay home and take care of the house/laundry/cooking/shopping and putting the kid on the bus for school, etc.? i have a fantasy about having a nice long-haired male wife...someone who will wear nothing but an apron and while making cookies so i can pinch him on the ass as he walks by.

 

wtf

 

Yeah, that is kinda weird...

 

heheh...that would be me...weird.

 

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heheh...applications. well, if i thought that would work, i'd do it! but actually what i want is a real marriage...you know...romantic love type thing. just a role reversal. so it wouldn't exactly work to handle it like a job interview.

 

Now thats just awesome to hear. Youd need to find a metrosexual kinda guy or the kinda guy that is on the sissy side

 

humn

 

oh come on! i can't be the only woman here who fantasizes about this!

 

i havent exactly fantasized abou tit but most men ive dated have been a lot better at housey stuff than i am. hell, my current bf (who i plan on marrying in a few years) would love to work from home and be able to watch any kids we may have while hes working. me, im not to sure about ever having kids but its awfully sweet that he plans on that, plus hes way better at keeping a house clean than i am. we both love baking but hes a bit better than me, but im definitely more experienced/better at cooking meals and such. i dunno, i just feel like we compliment each other well

 

aww, that's sweet. how did you meet?

 

oh...hell no. I want to be taken care of. Don't get me wrong I want to work unless I have kids at home who aren't in school, but I don't want to balance the check book, do the budgeting, not change diapers, work long hours or wear the pants...too much work, no thanks. If anyone's staying home or working part-time it's going to be me. Besides I no no man who is a better cook than me or is better with kids than me.
I could not respect a guy who wanted to be a stay-at-home dad. I'm not saying men should not be allowed to be the stay at home parent I am just saying I would not be listening to a word he said if I was married to a guy like that.

 

oppps double post!

 

the internet... cupid.com

 

well i did the mr. mom thing for awhile, worked when i had to or wanted to. worked out great. then spent alot of time with the grandkids. friends were jealous of me. nothing better than getting the house work done and then relaxing at the lake with a fishing pole in my hand.
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Peace Freak

 

you wouldn't respect him or listen to him? why not? doesn't a stay at home mom deserve to be respected and listened to? why would a stay at home dad be any different?

 

no!

i think i wont have respect to such a man....

 

why do you feel that way?

 

I just couldn't be in a relationship like that. As much as I like to pretend it's because I like to be taken care of and prefer domineering types of guys, it is actually because I am a control freak and need everything done my way and have a hard time being okay with the way someone else does laundry-so could you imgaine if it were kids and not laundry? I think my way is always the right way concerning more trivial things and I expect it to just get worse when I have kids. For some reason I have a need to control details, but not big decisions.

I'm also just completley sexist and don't think as a girl I should have to be the PRIMARY income bringer inner person.

 

I agree one-hundred percent