I recently found some emails that my husband had sent out and it was to other men. I tried to talk to him to find out what was going on and he said it was nothing. He was just messing around and he didn't know why he did things like this. But a few years ago he had posted a gay ad on a web site that i found. How Do I know if he may be gay, bi , or just wondering. Any help would be great as that I do not know what to do and have no one to talk to since he will not discuse this with me.
As a 17 year old, I'm not sure how much help I can be. However, I will try! Try sitting him down and telling him what you've found as you've done so. But insist on getting an answer from him. If he is gay or bi, he might be a little scared to tell you, so assure him that you won't be mad, but you're a little concerned about the ad and the e-mails. Sorry, it's not very much...but good luck
Why were you going through his email? But more importantly, it seems like he is obviously trying to cover something up. I mean it seems like you made an effort to confront him about it and he just kind of brushed it off. I think you need to bring it up again and tell him you're serious, and need to know what these emails are about. There is no way to figure out his sexuality without him telling you. However, the stuff you have found could be concrete evidence that he probably isn't completely straight. Who knows though? You have to talk to him, that's the only way of solving this problem.
