I believe our soul is ever chaning so there isnt one definite soulmate, there can be many, there just needs to be one that can coincide (its all about timing) with you in the soul connecting/exchanging, For soulmates to be able to remain for ever as one, the changes they go through in life, do not need to be the same, but need to be compatible, so you can understand and accept and grow as one. I was thinking a lot of what it feels like to have a soulmate, I think I even wrote about it...but the best description I could find to describe it, was a demonic possesion (but in a good way of course), it invades you and doesnt let go, but it feels good, like your lungs are always full with air. sigh
i love you too aura but am i really that demonic or possessive? heehee wait was that an evil laugh? muhahahaha see i can do better but as always very well said
ahh you are not evil even if you try to be demonic in the sense, that there was no asking for permisison, of hey open the door, let me in, you just got in, but i did the same and i understood that there's no need to ask for permission because it feels like home wow i should go and paint myself pink... lol
aww this made me happy. and your sig pic.. its my favorite from alex grey, i just knew his work the other day. but that was my favorite, i guess i just like wondering. see.. i already love you, i guess we are all soulmates.
you never had to knock you never had to open the door & you never had to come in you were always there thats the soulmate connection.. its comming home to where you belong
I love what you just said authentic, it sounds so true. I like the thougth of the door being open and not asking for permission, and the little demonic obsession, it all resume it.. thats beautifully said. I love the magic side of it, i really revel in it. And yes, from what you describe, you are very much in love..thats the sweetest, being in love with love.. Thats what I like best..
I must admit i love that one "coming home to where you belong" The feeling that the other was always there.. hmm, sweet words.. I am getting all smiten by it..keep on.
just noticed this was in the stoner's lounge maybe that's why it's full of such good vibes (i think i like it here)
i definitely believe in soul mates, and i believe they are seperate from your typical "good relationship" or even an exceptionally good friendship. For instance, i have a very close friend whom i've known for years, and i consider him my best friend, and we're on the same line of thought, but i wouldn't consider him a soul mate. we just didn't "click" when we met each other. My boyfriend though... i love this kid to death. I've always been very, very shy. However, as soon as i laid eyes on this boy, i began to pursue. He tells me he was awestruck, whereas he's usually the outgoing one. anyways, i'm babbling. long story short, we hit it off so immediantly, and we are still just like that after 10 months together, with the exception that we know a lot more about each other now. I honestly feel that he is my soulmate.
I never really thought about soul mates before, BUT i believe NOTHING is a coincidence in this life, every single event that happens in your life is meant for you to learn from it and help you to become the best and strongest human being possible. Its just up to us whether you WANT to learn from what happens in this short life we live. By the way, i just want to say i love you all..every single one of my HF friends
Oh ya and Krsna, please never ever ever ever ever hesitate to post these types of personal questions of our beliefs in the stoner lounge, every single thread youve posted here is a personal favorite of mine, keep it up brother.
i beleved in "soal mate" untill my girlfriend of a year and a half dumped me now i think that we were all ment to fall in love, and have that person cheat on you with yourbest friend for 3 months, then dump you after a laughing drunk confession but hey maybe i'm the only one
This story is similar to mine... About, 8 years ago I met this guy who used to skateboard in my apartment complex. Id bring him water, give him something to eat..but we never really talked or hung out. About a year later, I saw him in school and we talked for a split second. After that, id only see him once every couple of months, skateboarding down the street. About three years ago, I saw him again in a restaurant and I thought to myself..that if I dont talk to him now..ill never see him again. So, I gave him my number. And we are here three years later. Most definitely soulmates..on more than one level. He is my best friend, even if there was no love involved or anything..we are the very best of friends. Just so happens we are lovers too.
I have real conflicting thoughts on this subject since I've never had the joy of experiencing a soul binding closeness with anyone. It almost seems hopeless, but I'd sure love to believe all our energy is meant to merge together and expand outwards to advance together. Maybe it's selective? Perhaps certain fluctuating pulses of our energy can never truely merge with any other. Who's to know, if you find someone you can call your soulmate, then your soulmate exists. If not, what can you do?