Text Messaging

I'm the type of guy who really does not give a fuck about shit... I dont believe that anyone should have to "work" on there relationship, if the love is there then its there and it will prevail, if its not then its not and it will fail. Simple and plain. I never evaluate my relationship, as Rasta once said 'over analysing will seperate the body from the mind'... However I admit that I am guilty of saving text messages and reading them and I cant help it, I tell myself im being a fuckin loser, and to just delete the fuckin message, but for some reason I cant, I always read text messages, like in the middle of the night sometimes I grab my phone and peep all the messages that my love sends to me. I dont even kno why... Does anyone else do this? Save text messages and sporadicly read them? Or am I just the fuckin wierdo...?

 

im sure you are not alone. I dont really do it. I try my best to not dwell in the past and am always eager to move on. I agree with all you said of love though!

 

I wonder.......

I'm gonna start over analsing everything and see if i can seperate my body from my mind.

 

Anal-sing... lol that seperates the shit from your ass...

 

its not analyzing to read those, its just remembering how much she caresa bout you, and how much you care about her. its not analytical, its reliving the moment

 

i do it when i miss him or need a laugh

 

To me, that isn't WORKING on the relationship -- to me, "working" is having to constantly backtrack, compromise, force the issue and hang on long after it should be let go.

Keeping text messages to read isn't forcing or anything. It's like ... well, my grandpa kept all the letters my grandma ever sent him during the war, just to make himself happy thinking about her. It's like having souvenirs.

I keep my text messages with the excuse that, one day, the guy who sent them is going to publish a book and I can show people -- look, I knew him ... he held me dearly and had love for me ... and I can remind myself too. (heh ... justification, but, you know, it's not a bad thing.)

 

i did that with emails. a lot.

 

i did it it the past, i know my bf does it constantly

 

analsing is spelled analyzing

 

I do it all the time. Not so much wth text messages becuase I don't text all that often, but waaay back in the day before my boyfriend was my boyfriend, we used to write notes back and forth in school. Infact that's how we met, we sat across the room from eachother and he threw a note at me one day lol. Anywho, I read over these notes all the time. :] It's fun to look back and see how things have changed and our relationship has grown.

 

rasprophecy, you are weird

 

and your 13 little girl... log off and go do your fuckin homework. where the fuck your parents at.

 

seems as though someone didn't do their "homewrok" either.


lmao..mwaaaaahahaha

 

i have text messages from my boyfriend from over 3 years ago
i also have notes from elementary school. I love reminiscing...

 

Yea, I save the nice little "i loves you" and sweet messages and when I'm feeling down or something I read them to get a smile and think about the good things instead of the negative shit crushing my day.

 

Rasprophecy, School is out, that means i have no fucking homework to do
My parents are fucking sleeping .


You are too fucking stupid. Just because im 13 (14 in 9 fucking days) doesn't mean I'm as average as every other fucking 13 year old. Not every 13 year old kid is worried about their homework or shit like that. We are all fucking different.

And fuck you, it doesn't fucking matter how old you are, you can still be just as wise, just as stupid ,and just as fucking fun as the next fucking person.

So next time your gonna bitch at someone whose about their fucking age, remember we aint all the fucking same!





Excuse my language

 

damn. Well said!

 

lol

 

what she said!!!!!!! as i am quite sure you know girls mature way faster mentally then boys, with that said we know why certain people in this forum always give immature advice. haha good for you don't take no shit from any one .you are strong young and articulate and for some people you are a threat. but don't let that stop you from being you.