I'm not necessarily new to the concept of anal sex, but lately I've been using larger things, such as a dildo about the size of a mag-lite flashlight, and have wanted something a little bit bigger. If I went any bigger, would it be dangerous?
Ive gone a little bigger than a mag-lite with a dildo and Ive taken a fist (PM me for a pic, ha!) I am fine.. no issues yet. Slow and steady with lots of lube an its smooth multi-orgasmic sailing.
As long as there is no blood and all your bodily functions feel fine, then there is no reason not to keep stretching yourself and finding more pleasure.
Large anal penetration has nothing to do with being gay. Don't be ignorant. You're in an anal sex thread.. what do you expect? Well, I work in a store that sells dildos. It is definitely possible to go bigger, and many people do. I'm personally not interested in it, but the possibility it definitely out there. Lube is the key!