Hello, guys, I am 16 years old and I have a girlfriend for couple of months now. I am really excited because soon it might be my first time. It won't be hers as far as I know. I am a little scared. I just want an advice how to make it best, maybe more romantic. What to do?
Wait until you're eighteen. No, seriously. You will be so much more ready then. Whatever you do, ignore smokindude.
lay on the sweet talk kiss her kiss her neck ex everything youv have learned after awhuile slide your hand into her pants and slowly undress her smile think of me and fuck the dog shit out of her make me proud son im 16 i lost my V when i was 10 have fun and remember it's not scary when your doing it
don't worry much about technique or anything. yes, there are subtleties to the art of lovemaking, but don't focus on that. just love her and be passionate. you may not last that long (i did, but that's cause of other reasons i'm not gonna get into...) however just...well the genitalia isn't the only thing you want to focus on. if you wanna turn her on, start slow. kiss her, and just go from there. for your first time, don't just rip each others clothes off and go at it. take it slow and enjoy every moment of it together. she won't orgasm unless you've gotten her to before. but she'll enjoy it a lot if both of you are really into it. last piece of advice. sex does NOT end after you come. you can continue to kiss her and just slow down. lie down and hold her. i very much hesitate to call your first time "fucking". it should be making love, and this means to show affection and be passion. you can show her how much you love her without fancy tricks. being nervous or anxious won't help. you can't really fuck it up if you show her your love. where are you planning to do it? think a lot about this, considering what would be romantic and what she would like. set up a room to be more romantic if you want to. in terms of making it more romantic, is there music that would help make things more relaxed and set the mood? i know i put on Ripple by the grateful dead right at the beginning and the cd played through their live show...
just do it when your ready and everything youll do will come natural. If you think about what your gonna do then it wont b as good
ya dude, just go with it. Your body knows ewhat to do just fine. Be happy, and take it slow, the more forplay the better man. And if you feel like ur up to a challenge, learn oral sex. You will be her friend for life if u can do that for her, and be happy and make her happy with it.
Start with the kissing, and try to keep it up while you move your hand around... petting is always a good 'test'. Start by moving it onto her breasts, lightly... and if she doesn't move it away, play with her nipples a bit... add some pressure, girls like that. As a rule, one is probably more sensitive than the other. Then keep moving your hand down slowly, she might pull you away but don't get discouraged... just save it for another time and do something else in the meanwhile. But if she lets you touch her between the legs, the next thing you should do is suggest that you go into the bedroom... and let nature take its course... ummm... I usually rush through the whole 'take your clothes off bit' the first time, mostly because I just want to get going, but I suppose it's nice to undress slowly sometimes... and I think it's really cool if you kind of take breaks between the clothes coming off, like talking about things and stuff and maybe asking about her body and stuff... I mean, bodies are interesting... and girls love being complimented on their bodies. Don't worry about 'romance' in the traditional sense, it's hard to do right and a lot of the time ends up being corny or stupid... but candles are always nice... I think some music can be really good, but sometimes it just doesn't work. Everyone has their own way of doing things, though...
