Okay well, I just went on a vacation with my senior class to the bahamas, my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me on our 2 year anniversary over the phone WHILE i was in the bahamas and I hooked up with this guy (we had been really bonding and talking and stuff and it just happened). awesome right? wrong, because the day before this guy left for the trip, he broke up with my best friends little sister (practically my little sister) and she was obssessed with him. Ive been hooking up with him since we got back and talking and he tells me im beautiful and i make him smile and stuff, all this really sweet stuff. my friends sis is outta town but comes home friday so she has no idea all this is happening. I think she thinks she was still dating this guy..im not sure, but I need to tell her, and I really want to continue getting to know this guy but I think itd be wrong, what should I do? please someone help me...
Well thats a hard spot to be in. If you date him you risk losing your friend, but if you stand by her you risk losing him. However there are a few things I can think of to help.... First you should have him tell her it's over between them. You don't want to be in the middle of it (it would be like you'r the one breaking up their relationship. As for you and him... You want to be sure tht there is somthing between you and just not picking him so you don't have to be single. After dating a guy for 2 years i can see how it would be hard to be single once more. There is now easy way to deal with this. Sorry...
My opinion: First of all you should STOP breaking up and getting back together with your 2yr (ex) bf. Because I've read your posts in the past it seems to me that you two have allot of issues. Talk, and decide, what is it going to be: are you going to be together for good or not. I'm telling you this because me and my 1,5 bf were the same: breaking up, getting back together in no-time, constantly fighting and it can't work that way. After you two have things sort out, then you can concentrate on this other problem you have. In other words you took your little sisters bf for whom she is totally crazy about. How do you think that she is going to react when she finds out? She'll probably hate both of you till she dies. I know i would. So get real, and before you get into bigger mess think about what you really want and who do you really care about. peace