opinions please... My boyfriend and I were visiting his home town and while he was playing guitar with his old chums, his other friend, Josh, was engaging me in a conversation about spirituality and coming into your higher power, aligning yourself with your soul (stuff I'm way interested in but BF doesn't seem to care about) Anyways it was casual on my part, not flirtacous at all, no attraction. But he told me he wishes I wasn't with Chase because he would love to be with me. Afterwards though, he fell over drunk, beside a police car, so he was toasted. Normally I am very open with my BF. I tell him if guys hit on me, if ex's call, etc. But I wanted to keep this quiet. 1) his friend was drunk (but I could tell he meant it) and 2) wouldn't it cause a rivalry with a close friend we will only see when we visit? is that worth it for him to lose such a dear old friend? What would ya'll of done. I think I did the right thing, but I still wonder. I never lie or keep truths from Chase, my BF. But I am. I mean they grew up together. They are specially intertwined in each others lives.
your intentions were fine and in the end that is all that matters, what this other guy did is on his conscience not yours.
I would have told him, but thats just me. Plus Im not a girl :tongue: Afterall, he is your boyfriend right? Personally I would want to know if my friends were saying such things. Drunken sillyness doesnt involve hitting on someones girlfriend, drunken sillyness involves laughing at stupid sex jokes and play fighting.
You should have told him right after it happened, he probably would have forgot all about it. Now it will be odd just coming out of the blue. Your loyality should be to your significant other on this one.
