How can people be this mean?

i met this guy on another forum he was 18 and i knew him for a month but we hit it off and i thought he was my true love because everytime i would talk to him and he would make me feel great, but i didnt know him in real life or anything, but he put pictures up on the forum. But anyways today he told me he was a she, everything was a lie! I cant tell you how bad i feel today im simply disgusted at her for playing as a guy, she was so good you would have never known i certainly didnt, but seems everything was fake the pictures even the name that she gave her "fake gay guy". She said she is sorry and that she still likes me, the hell with that she ruined me for a few days having to get over someone who is fake! I just cant believe this!

 

I think what she did was cruel, however unless you want it to it doesn't need to be the end of the friendship (although I'm sure no one would blame you if you never wanted to see her again) I think you need to clearly communicate with her how hurt you are and see how she reacts to this, you may find that there are other reasons why you may still like her in your life, or you may just feel that you need to write her out of it altogether.

Remember that net relationships are often difficult, you could met a guy on the net get really close, met and just not like him, people lie about all sorts of things, so be really careful.

I guess I want to know why she did it, is she really lonely or did she just feel like playing games?
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Well she said she does it because she doesnt like her real self and if she could she would be the person she played as, i felt really bad for her when i was in shock but as the day went on and i felt like running a car into a freaking tree i get more and more angry at her because i really want the guy she played as, and now i dont have him. It's just really sad. But i dont really want to leave her because i met him/her on a ferret forum and thats why i liked him/her so much we shared the same lieks and everything, and i still care about her ferrets so i want to keep in touch to see how there doing and she loves my ferret to, but its just so wrong being around him/her after i found out this, i feel now that i vant trust anyone

 

ferret forum thats really funny!

sorry!

why don't you link her to this thread then she will read how you feel and be able to read other peoples points of view as well.

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Haha what's wrong with ferrets? I know mine helped me out alot today with his cuteness. I dont think i should link her because i really dont think she cares, shes done this to other guys before to, shes been doing it since she was 12. I just dont get her, shes really messed up and i feel sorry for her. Im going to try and get in contact with someone she did this to and see how they dealt with it...

 

that being the case, I would be tempted to give her up as a lost cause, there must be other nice people around with ferrets!
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Haha it's going to be hard finding a guy around my age with a ferret. But im bound to find one. Thanks for the responce though, im starting to liek this forum

 

You can't really get any more pathetic than her, from the sounds of it. That must be the worst feeling in the world, finding out the person you loved doesn't even exist.

 

lmao u crazy mayn u tryin to find luvon da net u a lame lol