question for guys:

i like both skinny and cury, it doesnt matter to me at all

 

ha! well, ive just been avoiding him.(my ex). i dont need that.
thanks for all the great comments i actually am bigger than i look, although not by much.

as for me, i looooveeee curves on women! AND guys! i just like holding ONTO SOMETHING when i hug them!lol. not putting down skinny people, there are plenty that are attractive, just not MY type, you know?

 

"I wouldn't fuck her with your dick" is the correct term here, I believe.

 

excuse me for sounding dumb, but what does that mean?heh.

 

curvy is good ... hope you told him to F-off

 

I don't like too fat, but a little bit of fat is hot... curvy is wonderful. Then again, they need to be very flexible... once you've dated a yoga instructor, there's just no going back!!!

 

OH yes! he came over to my house and kept saying how "great" cocaine was! i got tired of it because he said "pot's dangerous too! name ONE bad thing about coke!"
WHAT? man, i just stood there not saying a word until he left.i deleted him from my myspace and everything....crazy!

back on topic! ^ yoga instructor, eh?LOL

 

She could bend herself completely in half while standing up. How I miss her!

 

EEK!=0
no WAY could i do that!

 

Ahhh...I'm a curvy girl. And I love my curves. I was blessed with an hourglass figure with a relitively small amount of belly fat. Big boobs, big hips. My belly's only a little squishy because I don't work out.

But I tend to be attracted to thinner women. I don't know why? Maybe because the first girl I ever really went for is really skinny. I'm not opposed to ladies like myself or the bigger ladies either. Men and women, regardless of size, get me going. Human beings are beautiful creatures.

K, I'm attracted to most people. But the zero body fat thing IS a turnoff...thin is one thing, anorexic is another. I think people look best at their NATURAL body wieght. That's what turns me on.

Unless they're assholes. Then I don't care what their body looks like, I'm not going for it.

 

moongazer---is this a question for you---and is that your picture---if thats the case I would say you don't have to worry about that---if its not about you then show us a pic on who your talking about --if your saying like someone who's 5'5" and 140 thats alright--the face is the most important thing--and then the shape of the girl--alot of girls with weight have a better face and shape to them then some skinny girls

 

i tend to avoid any woman whose ribcage and hipbones i can see easily. same for the men. but i wouldn't be attracted to a morbidly obese person, either. but anything between is good. but even then, if a person is a beautiful enough personality, i'll find them attractive anyway. just so long as they don't spend their whole lives fixated on every little thing they eat or drink. i guess i prefer what's between the ears to what size pants they wear.

 

aw thanks, man<3
today i feel unnaturally sexy! im wearing a tank top- a big NO NO for me before! hoorah!lol;P
ive gotta stop worrying, thats all.
(my really cute girl friend whom i have a crush on didnt seem to mind as we poked each others bellies, goofing around and laying in bed the other day!LOL)
i mean, what?

 

What a dick head. I can relate.. my ex told me I had fat legs and that if I ran it would melt away. Thank god they're not all like that.

But to answer your question.. Remember Hilary Duff when she was bigger not fat... she was BEAUTIFUL! She looks alright but I think she looked hella better before. But I think women look better with a little meat... not the super model thin.

 

did you notice how hilary duff went from having a nice smile to having donkey teeth once her face shrank back? ew.

 

Sure, everyone has their preference, and physical attraction plays a small role in meeting someone...
but in the end, your looks don't last, it's who you are that does.

I don't care how naive or idealistic that sounds, but it's true. Years from now, we are all going to be sagging, wrinkling, greying and/or balding... What we weighed at 20, or 30 years old isn't going to matter (unless it was unhealthy, and ends up wearing on your physical health), what kind of clothes we wear doesn't matter...when you're intimate with someone, they just come off anyway! Haha.

If someone doesn't like you because of your weight, then they aren't worth your time anyway, because they aren't paying attention to who YOU are, and what you're about--- and that also translates to, that person wouldn't be someone to rely on through thick and thin.

People lose weight, and gain weight...its a fact of life. People are built differently. Etc. etc.

But do those things matter, really, when it comes to having a good relationship with someone? I don't think so.

Looks are so fucking overrated.

 

that's just something pretty people say.

 

Wow, that was the most ridiculous statement I've ever heard.


I gave my two cents, because I used to be in the same position...and I felt inadequate and insecure about how I looked, because I was overweight and what not... then, I developed an eating disorder, that I struggled with for years..

so I have this attitude for a reason. Thank you. I'll never let ANYONE make me feel like shit, because of my weight, or any other part of my physical appearance again... it isn't fucking worth it. And I'd never do that to anyone else, either.

Bye bye now.

 

oh for heaven's sake, it was a compliment and a sarcastic twist on that old saying "winning isn't everything" and the response "that's just what losers say."

but nevermind, i'll take back the compliment. a thousand pardons.

 

Sorry.