i just really need some help figuring this out. im absolutely & completely in love with my boyfriend. We've known each other for about 5 years, have been casually dating for about a year, and seriously dating for about 6 months. we recently started talking about having sex, but both of us are pretty moral people & planned on waiting until marriage. well. . .that didnt happen. he came home ( about a 2 hour drive ) from college for the weekend without telling his parents, while my parents were out of the country. we got into a fight, we both got upset, and just got really passionate. . . we ended up having sex. we didnt have a condom, & im not on birth control ( becuase i never had a need for it ). he DID pull out, he ejaculated into a napkin but he had a real load & some spilled out onto the top of my vagina. i wipede it off as soon as it happened but regardless, im really freaked out that i might get pregnant. what do you all think ?
unless he didn't pull out in time, you should be fine. A little spill on the outside isn't gonna impregnate you.
precum CAN get you pregnant. if you are truly concnerd, go to a local planned parenthood and get teh morning after pill. adn then get yourself on some damn birth control and stock up on condoms!
Lol youre gonna be a mum now. But seriously, asking some randomers on a forum wont change your fate. Just pop your morning after pill (unless its too late) and in future get your bf to use a jonjon!
would you ont feel pre- cum ? & its too late to get the morning after, you can only take it if its been like 92 hours or less since you had sex.
and no, you really wouldn't. pre-cum is usually just a little bit that leaks out. i think it's just to help with lubrication on an evolutionary perspective, but it is still fertile. but yeah, the guy wouldn't even feel it. it's just like it oozes a little bit out. it's really rare that you would have precum that either of you would feel, though it does happen like that on the odd occasion. have you ever given a handjob before? y'know how before he cums you'll get a little bit on your hand? or how it's a little wet before you do anything? that's precum.
on the tip of guys penis's is usually a VERY small amount of sperm...so that is why you should BE CAREFUL and use a condom and don't use the pull out method. And about the cum spilling onto your vagina, i wouldn't stress about that because it has to make it's way inside you first, and than find an egg. But first of all, getting preganant is a very hard thing to do, so cum just being in contact with your vagina isn't enough to impregnate you. be careful next. teh world doesn't need anymore unwanted babies. i was one.
So many things. The main one...u should have taken the after morning pill. And ... u should so go to the doc. Take all precausions next time. If there is a next time.
They are good little swimmers, but can't make it that far, hun. If he got out in time, no problem. I would use something next time or get on the pill.
So In Love... Precum only contains sperm if the guy masturbated hours before having intercourse, or had prior intercourse earlier that day. And did not urinate after masturbating or having intercourse to orgasm before having the sex with you. Precum is a clear liquid whose purpose is to remove the acidity in the urethra from prior urination, and to create a "slippery slope" for the ejaculate after the sperm is mixed with the semen in the prostate just prior to ejaculation. Spillage onto the outside of your vagina should not cause you to become pregnant. The sperm has to enter your vagina and go up the cervix and impregnate an egg which has been released during your period of ovulation each month. Did you wipe up the cum after it spilled? Wash it off?
yes the cum was wiped off almost imeadiatley after it happened. there WILL be protection next time. & as far as being an unwanted child; my boyfriend was conceived on valentines day, & was given up for adoption ( which made his life alot better than it would have been, but i understand what you mean; becuase of him ) which is why i freaked so much.
