Plz Help Me Plz Plz Plz!

ohhhh lol i am sorry. omh i feel so stupid. gawd im sorry. i wasnt lookin at the word

 

I agree with Lorna's first post here. I think you'd be better off keeping things to yourself right now, until YOU feel that the time is right to come out.

And I don't recommend rebelling against your parents. I've always found it much more comfortable having my pop and mom on my side than being in conflict with them.

 

why sre people in our world so disgusting seriously i am gay and i am the nicest person i have hidden it for so long bcoz im afraid that people will think of me as worthless and i wish everyone could just be treated equally we r all diferent in our own ways. i am so sick and tired of jokes and and stuff that my family say about homosexuals as i am one they dont know but i have to laugh so they dont know and it is so stupid. my family all hate gay people except my mum she says all people shpould be treated equall wethher gay or what.

sorry just a rant lol

 

no that is good you are letting ur fustration out. it helps ppl kno they rnt the onlii 1z. I have to do the same thing (listen to them tlk negatively). It Is ok in my eyes. no one is right no one is wrong. we are all in this world just trying to make it thru.

 

i propose a group hug!

 

lol *HUG*

 

I didnt tell anyone till I was 18. You have plenty of time to tell them and ask their views of gays. Remember your just 13 and you got alot of time to tell them. I told my mom with my gf when I was 18 and I tought she was the same as my family and she accepted it. And somhow my grandmother knew she kept telling ppl since I was 16 Im bisexual lol. Just take your time, if they really love you they will accept you for who you are. They might be all hard at first but as time and years pass they will understand and accept. Remember ppl are scared of what they dont understand. if you need anything, PM me.

 

thank you very much

 

I'm 19 and not out...I have a family like yours. My aunt is an open lesbian and she's shunned by our entire family...she doesn't get invited to family gatherings, and when she is nobody talks to her (except my grandmother and me.) and everybody in our family either talks shit on her or makes fun of her...or the worst, they talk about how she's

a) fallen from God.
b) confused (she's 38!!)
c) gross

yeah. so I'm not coming out to my family. Ever. I love my parents and brothers to death, and we get along great. What they don't know won't kill them, and I'm perfectly happy. If it ever comes to me being unhappy about being closeted around my family then I'll come out...but that's not the case. I just don't want to go through that when I don't have to.

If you think you'd be happier out of the closet then go ahead and do it...but it sounds to me like you'd be putting yourself through an unecessary hell.

 

true true

 

I agree with what other people are saying, don't tell them yet. At least if you are over 18 you'll probably have left home. It's still completely shit if your family are like that, but you don't have to live with them.

I also don't get it about gay people not accepting bis. I think we're all a little bit bisexual really.

Lots of love xxx *joins in group hug late*

 

yea to me evry1 iz a lil bi