I have a beautiful girlfriend that is one of the coolest people in the world to be around. Something that is a little different between us is our religious views. We have been together for over a year, and to start out we had a very good and strong sexual relationship! She was a ton of fun, but then she just started to talk about how it was against the bible and everything and she didnt wna do it anymore, which i just kept blowing it off and she would do it anyway but less and less. Now its to the point where i am lucky to get laid once a week and when it does happen she would rather me wake her up in the middle of the night and do it! Drives me crazy! I am no man whore but when i get a girl i really love i want to share this with them, and often! Anyone have any ideas on what i should do?
To be honest, I really don't no what you should do. I personally have lost my religious views ( was a christian for 10 yrs and was confirmed and bapatized) but I have really changed my thought on everything lately and I really don't understand the concept of not having sex till marriage. If your still doing it once a week then she really isn't following any rule right? Maybe you should try reverse psychology and just stop having sex with her. Maybe she'll want it so bad she'll beg for you.
Well explain this to her. I think you need to talk to her and exlain that you understand that religion is very important to some people and that by doing that you dont mean to offend her believes or anything. That's not all you are looking for and you seem to love her. Explain to her that. That sex is a very natural thing and that you don't feel like you are commiting a sin by wanting to shre that experience with her...it's not like you are commiting the sin of infedelity or anything horrible like that. It's just bonding each other closer. Tell her your intentions are pure. Bring this up with her. You two are in a relatonship and need to give a little bit into the relationship. By talkingi t out you can get somehwere instead of just wondering. If it's because you're not married and she wants to wait for marriage or something like that...I say give her what she wants because it's her body. Just bring it up and see how it goes. Let's say it is the marriage thing...if you can't deal with that break up...but if you really love her...you can wait for her to feel like she is ready again. Tolerance, communication and understanding are key.
Peoples devotion to their beliefs wanes and grows stronger all of the time. Maybe something happened or was said to her recently that's making her reflect on her beliefs and conduct, or maybe she's naturally feeling closer to God, or whomever she worships, and she's feeling pulled to do His will instead of hers for the time being. I recommend you just be supportive of her right now. She's obviously having some kind of religious dilemma and isn't quite sure what to do. Either have a long, deep conversation with her and get to the very bottom of things, or else be patient and wait it out until she figures it out on her own.
