I'm afraid to have sex with someone I care about

I have yet to sleep with anyone I actually care about, like the second I actually have respect for someone, it automatically means they're too good for me or something.

 

Thats strange man.

For me, its much harder to have sex with a woman I DONT care about, as I feel cheap, and like an asshole for using her.

Just go for it, fears are simply something we must learn to overcome. If you truly care about her, and she truly cares about you, then you have absolutely nothing to worry about.

 

aww...that's too bad...but don't give up on yourself...keep workin on your self-esteem...maybe one day you'll be able to have a sexual relationship with someone you admire on every level...it's worth working for.

 

I mean, i have no exsperience in it and all, but it's just a fear, you will kill the fear at one point. The only way to over come a fear is to beat it. Thats how i over came my fear of the dark. I stayed up for like 3 hours in my room at night with the lights off. I walked around, didn't go near the bed. and it worked

basically, you will over come it, although i have no room to talk about fucking and stuff. but, you know....

 

Where the hell did a lucky 14 year old girl find a 1967 Chevy Imapala that's my favorite car. I'll trade you my new Lincoln.

 

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Hey man, what part of WNY do you live in?

I live in Buffalo, and I'm very well familiar with the I90!