this might seem great but it freaks me out a little

so the other day my boyfriend told me that he got rid of all the porn that he has(and he has a lot.... trust me, i've used his computer) because he is perfectly happy with what we have..... i mean who wouldn't jump for joy at this news, but it got me thinking.....some married men don't even give up porn and we are 18..... and i am worried that he might be taking things a little too seriously..... i have mixed emotions here..... i am completely flattered and soooo happy that he did that, but it makes me think that things are moving too fast.... i'm just venting.... but maybe you guys could give opinions

 

no, he is a VERY honest guy..... when we started dating, he told me about them and asked me if i were ok with him looking at it and i said yes..... so he has no need to be secretive about it because I am completely ok with it

 

hmm... yeah it does seem a bit drastic doesnt it? im only 18 too and in a pretty serious relationship and sometimes i get freaked out that we are way too much like a married couple and things are way too serious, but at the same time, i just take what comes.
i wouldnt worry about it too much, he may or may not regret it but whats porn? its easily acquired again if u guys break up or what not, and in the meantime its a nice gesture of his love and devotion to u. its not like hes giving u a ring or anything.

 

ok, getting rid of the porn it's not like moving in togather, he can always get more

just be happy, cause that's a nice way to show you that he cares and that he is happy with you

 

:agree:

 

I agree too!
love,
mom

 

maybe he was just thinking like

"I wouldn't like it if she watched as much porn as me..."
So he completely stopped.
Ha
I dunno....

 

porn is porn.

it's not like he's giving up beating off.

 

Males are very visual and some guys get aroused by watching porn before or during sex (some women too). It should not be regarded as something which is disrespectful of the female partner.

 

He is just feeling hard core lust for you at the moment. Its part of the burning intensity of new romance. It will fade in time. Both good and bad, no?

 

he's lying...and anyways what's wrong with watching porn?????or looking at nude pics????

 

didn't say anything was wrong with it...... in fact i support it..... so that's why this is weird, because i know he isn't lying......

and also there was a lot more lust 8 months ago than there is now and he was looking at porn then..... but idk thanks for all the opinions

 

definently seems liek overkill if you don't mind porn

tell him exactly what you told us
he may be a little disappointed, but it's best that he know that you aren't quite ready for him to come on so strongly

 

Is it possible that you sent signals (without meaning to or even knowing that you were doing it) that indicated that you would be happier if he got rid of the porn?

It sure would explain his actions.