i was in love with my best friend..

for most of this year.
and he's another guy.
i see myself as being straight.
but i never really understood why i was "in love" with him.
ive known him since birth.. and just this year i could almost never stop thinking about him.
and not even in a sexual way. i just always wanted to be with him, to talk with him, to feel comfortable in his presence.

i dont feel that same way now.
i "love" him because he's my best friend and basically my brother.
but im no longer "in love" with him.

ehhh.
normal?

 

i dont think there was ever an "in love" but a strong bond you felt. keep a strong relationship with him, its hard to get friends who you can love

 

Love does not have to be sexual.

It's sad that today's society associates love and sex so much, that it practically presents them as inseparable.

I have friends whom I truly love, with all of my heart. I would do anything for those crazy kids.

Do I want to fuck them? No.

Love is so far beyond sex.

 

i wasnt talking about it in a sexual way, i guess it came out wrong eh? im saying "in love" is meant as a bf-gf thing. but aliandthebaba there is nothing wrong wth loving your friends, its really good that you want to spend time with him, continue with that and get a strong relationship with him.

 

I wasn't refering to what you said, Scuba Steve, I was refering to the general attitude of gringolandia!

 

oh

 

duudes.
i know having friends you can love is fantastic and great.
but-and i probably shouldve defined this earlier-when i say 'in love' it means.. constantly thinking about whether or not i should just say fuck it and go crazy on the kid.
because at times i just felt like doing that.
whew not anymore though. i felt that at a time i was so intensely.. sexually frustrated and well inactive that.. nevermind.

i definitely know the separation between sex and love my friends.
im just saying there was a time when i guess i wanted both.