Ok well I do enjoy messing with my butt when ever im masturbating but when ever I do it, there are sometimes I really wish I could get used to like making the object I am using go in and out in which It can feel quite good. But it eventually will kinda burn and i will stop. It feels best to like leave the object in and the kinda wiggle it (maybe b/c it rubs the a-spot?) Well of course I use lube but idk if I am used to it or something, to where I can pump the object. I mean hell I have seen porn where some girls can take some huge dildos and a few fingers and just pump them in and out. It looks kinda fun and would love to do that when I masturbate but I just cant seem to get used it. Are there any tips u recommend for pumping ur fingers or an object in an out? Also is it supposed to feel good if the object comes completely out of the sphincter grip and then back in?? because that seems to really hurt. (Even though I really want to do it) Ill usually use a toothbrush handle or rubber pool torpedo or candle, and the lube ill use is Aveeno lotion. I have found some ky around the house that I know my parents must have forgotten about (so i took it lol) and tried that, but that seems to make it go less smooth. (Maybe b/c its the liquid kind??) Note: I have found this out the hard way. There is some other Warming KY... and NEVER USE THAT UP YOUR BUTT. Talk about burning sooo bad I almost cried. Anyways, Another thing about the regular ky.. Iv noticed if it mixes with water it loses some lube integrity and can create some serious friction. Iv noticed this because Ill usually do an enema b4 i stick stuff up there (I really really really hate poo) What sux is there is always some water that must go down into rectum during play because i will sometimes still be able to push some out. Sooo lame! I mean enema is great but it still like makes some water diluted poo umm juice?!?! go onto object. ARGH!!!!! With how much I like the feeling of something up my butt I just keep encounting problems. So it would help if you could help me with some questions or give some tips: How to enjoy pumping the object in the butt? (lol) When doing an enema should I try to just clean out my rectum or entire colen??? (It seems to take longer but less trips to bathroom) Is there a way to get my mindset to be more accepting and enjoying of anal stimulation? Is it ok to use this large rubber pool torpedo (I am scared that I am gonna damadge my sphincter or prostate) Here is a similar one:http://www.swimming-pool-chemicals.co.uk/pool-torpedoes-underwater-games.html (Note it looks WAY bigger than in the pic) Is there a way I can totally open up my sphincter with use of my mind to better enjoy anal stimulation (So I dont feel like I have to push to get the object in) Is enema the best way to clean out urself and stop from poop coming out while trying to enjoy yourself? Is it ok to use tap water for the enema solution? Any tips for enema? Any other help?? If you can just answer some or a few it would be nice. I just need some ppl with exp in the anal play/sex to give some tips Thanks.
The pumping action will come with time. You just need to get used to the sizes of objects. And if you progress slowly, there is nothing wrong the size of that torpedo. You mentioned pushing out to get an object in. That is a very good way to relax so there is nothing wrong with using that method. Tap water is fine for enemas. That's all I got. Sorry for the short answers. I'm very tired haha.
