how do ya make new friends?

Yes, it's all from the movie Clockwork orange. He says it when he's listening to Beethoven. The pic is from an even greater Kubrick movie, 2001: A space odyssey.

 

everywhere

it's not hard at al for me
it's just talking

 

usually through school...through other friends...just random people that look interesting. I can be really shy, but somedays im really outgoing and friendly. I guess it depends what mood im in

AND HIPFORUMS! iv made a few friends through this site and with the help of msn and myspace

peace
love Jane

 

It should be easy, but I see that I can't have any on a forum.

 

Maybe because you dont treat them as friend, as soon as you can see they are nice to you, you just treat them badly and dont communicate with them as friend, and also because you try too many at the same time, and create tensions between them, using a special method to do so, and keeping that pattern again and again, so that it will be very problematic for them (and not to you) to can be friend with you unless you stop doing that.
You have to communicate better and not only to one side, and you also have to dont replace the one with the other as oyu do, and ignore your first friend, as soon as your yes catch a possible new one.. then you disrespect the one you already have and risk to lose her, and create big problems in their life and in yours for no reason at all.
You have to concentrate on the friend you have and to learn to deepen the relation first, to learn to know each others better, and to communicate clearly as it is important to communicate when we are online only.
You have to avoid making tension between those you know, and be more loyal to the friend you already have, and to respect their friendship to you.
You also have to use discernement, and to differenciate between true friends and people out to play games with others.
To build a solid friendship you have to give it time and care, and to dont take it for granted nor being disrespectfull of yoru friend.
You have to ask them what they think and listen to them, and take their menaing into accont as for how the relationship shouldbe, and not only listening to your own voice and opinions and deciding solely of what happen when, and how the whole thing should be.
It is a twosome relation, and not a solo one. So oyu have to also do things the way the other would like it to.
You have to show you care, and not tell everybody things oyu tell that person and that she tells you.
Certain things should be kept private and also a priviledge of that friendship. If you say the same thing to everybody, then what is this friendship build upon?
There is no foundations.
You have to take care of the friend you have and not kep searching for a friedn while oyu already have found one, and ignoring that person to try if oyu can found better, because thats the message you will be sending to her: " you are not enough for me, i can found something better!"
Show more tact, be sincere, honnest, true, loyal, and respectfull, and care in your actions for that person, and you will ahve a friend.

 

Tell me the truth, Sophie. You only want to use me to make out with you on a forum.
You don't give a damn about me, just want to use me for pleasure, don't ya, love?

I hate to tell ya, but guys don't like being used either. Well, some don't.

 

WAW! I am shok!

How can you believe a word of what you are saying to me MEl?

You now perfectly that it isnt the case, you know exacttyl how i feel for oyu, or should knwo that since very long.

you know me better than that.

I am trying, and trying, why dont you hear me mel?

the description oyu gave fit perfectly on sara. She ha been playing you for so long, love.

And i have watch her do it, ad tryed to warn you in all the ways i could, but still now, you dont see it.

How can oyu think that i am using you for pleasure?
Where is my pleasure here? so much pain, so much waiting.
ONly because I love you, I cna have the faith to still trust you and wait, and be there, even when it hurt me so much.

How can oyu say that i do not give a damn about you Mel?
Would I be there if it was true?

No.

I will have leave since very long.

Where is the pleasure?

I can tell you not here, somehwere else, what is the true shape of my feelings for you. The shape of my soul and of my heart.

This is the truth, mon amour.

 

Sophie, I don't know what to think. I need to go now. You need to go to sleep. I'm going to bed now..I'm beat, mate. It's been one hell of a day. I knew it would be after coming back from vacation. Need another vacation already. lol

 

I love you very deeply Mel.

If i didnt nothing you do could ever anger me as it do, nor hurt me at all. I will just not care.
Because I love you so sincerely, I endure all, and I accept the hurting, and am patient, and always hope for better, adn keep my Faith in us.

 

We should have taken that in PM, and oyu should have told me you were doubting.
It will ahve been so easier on us both, love.

I need a vacation as well, with you this time...

I think we had a breakthrough, hard and painfull as a birth, but we made a breakthrough. Now, we are on the other side.
Dont think that because you are not in PM, that it hide you more.
It just make it painfull to be exposed. But i do it because htis count for me so much more, than a question of pride.

We have talk. and now it is clearer, nearer, and better.

 

Goodnight, hun. XOXO

 

Goodnight mon Amour, I will be loving you and thinking of you until you are there with me again.

Take care. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXOXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

 

I make friends by treating everybody like they're already my friend. Because they are...human ='s friend.

 

hmm, thats sounds like i do most of the time when i talk to people outside, most are also very responsive to it.

 

ditto

 

strangers are just friends you havent met.

 

ooooh how insightful lol