New Girl i work with..tryin to get with her:) Help please, it shouldnt b that hard.

hey, so theres this new polish girl i work with, shes fuckin hot, but shes 5 yrs older than me, and we hung out a few times, i gave her a ride home a few times, and she always invited me in for "something to drink" haha, first time i went in other times i went home cuz i was too tierd, but shes not mad or anything, we hang out almost everyday after work, we have a good time together.. i kno im attracted to her, and i think shes attracted to me as well..

lol she always says ur too young, and shes always like i wish u could go out with us ( talkin about herself and her freinds) to clubs and bars, and she also said she wants me to take shots with her, and i defff kno if im gettin drunk around her somethings going TO HAPPEN haha

but till that day, i just wanna b smooth and i want tips on what to do to hint that i wanna mess around with her, and get more "close?" haha...

i mean IT REALLY shouldnt b that hard, i see her often, she invites me in to her house, shes home alone, what should i do, what should b my first move, to make it clear that i wanna mess with her ( im sure she wouldnt really say no in a real negative cold way, cuz she likes me, im not very shy, but i dont wanna flat out say...hey i think we should have sex)


please help me out

thanks!

(sorry if i fucked up typing all this, im a bit lifted)

 

Help Please!

 

i don't see the problem here

since you bouth like eachother, and you want sex, no relationship
just go out for a couple of drinks and start a move on her

thill then, just act like you were acting before

 

ANY OTHER HELP

you bastards hahaha jm

 

your first move should be to slip her a roofie. after that you're golden

 

Cease becoming, my friend. Begin to be.

 

What is the big deal here? Tell her how you feel. 5 yrs is no big deal. Maybe she said this to see what you thought of the age thing. There isn't a law that says the man has to be older..there isn't one for the other way around either. Also, if a woman and man can marry the same sex, why is she worried about 5 yrs? Lay a kiss on her lips that she won't be able to count to 5, muchless think about the 5 yr differance.

 

Lol! (its 5 am here can we talk now?)

 

just don't be an asshole and lead her on

but just get more physically flirt-y
touch her lots and stuff

maybe jokingly hit on her, that's always gold

 

Girl, you need to go to bed. I need to too. Wow ! It's late here too. Let's go to bed.

 

talk to me in pm first, as you have to, we are talking that way anyway, so why interupting threads unecessaraly?

 

what im thinkin is, just wait till we drink together then make a move....OR

touch her lots and flirt with her (i already do)
and see what happens...

 

HebrewNation - You are 18, she is 23. You both are adults, so do it. Give her a kiss, or a massage, look in her eyes and stroke her hair. Tell her you want to make love with her.

When I was 19, I met a woman nine years older while in Europe. She saw me dancing, liked how I moved, and came on to me. At first I hung back, knowing she was so much older, but before I knew it we were slow dancing. She made it clear (by the way she pressed her body into mine) that she wanted more. I got an erection, and she looked down and gave me a wicked smile. We went upstairs to her cabin (this happened on a ship), and we did not leave it for seven days...

She taught me everything, and it can happen to you too.

 

word.