I'm having really strong pains in my pelvic region during sex and wondering if any of you ladies have had this happen.. and what it is...?
Strong, huh? Do you have rough sex, or maybe he is too big for you? These two things can hurt you. If not, I would go see about it. Do you get checked out like you should? Even so, I would go see about it, just to be on the safe side. I can't stand to hear or see that a girl is in pain.
you have to see your gyneco, thats an illness that can be operated, many women suffer from this, but it can be cured. many women never even tell! it is due to a contraction inside, go see your doc! dont stay like that and dont have sex as long as you are in pain while doing so.
some women cramp up or have pain when their bf thrusts too deep. personally i get a sharp pain when my bf "bottoms out" and taps my cervix... he tries not to but i love rough sex, just dont like that particularly sensation. id ask your doctora bout it next time youre over though
Lorna, it could be anything from pelvic inflammatory disease scars, to cysts to a weird angle. How DARE you tell someone that it is definitely in need of surgery!
Because there is a very specific woman problem, where women are having pain when they have sex, and it isnt just once like htat, but always, all their life, and that often doctors in the past have just said its all in hteir head, but who now have proven to be something very physical and concreete and who can be operated, or cured another way, i do not know the name in english, or she could ask directly the doc or look on the internet first, but i told her to go to see a gynecologist who will definitly be able to tell her after an examination, as they now know how to detect it and cure it, but it is only since 1 year, so could be still many doctors who do not know about it and will be unable to help her. She didnt said it was something who didnt hapeend before but htat hse was having it always, so i understood it, therefor it exclude the inflamatory possibilities. But dare is a strong word, i never told her she was definitly in need of surgery but that it could get cured by that, but not only that, i said she needed to see a gynecologist, which isnt the same, and anyway, i am not going to operate her, well? so what are you freaking about? she got to see her doc no matter what and let HIM give her an answer. she ask here i tell her, she dosnt give much detals either so its difficult to know. And funny enough, all some of the things you mentionned require an operation! LOL! a cyst must be operated! you got time to spare or what?
why would a cyst have to be operated? i had one in my chest and the doctor just made me take medication... i'm going to the doctor tomorrow. sorry for lack of details. i dont know what else to add.
to be honest, we dont know enough symptoms to offer any definite diagnosis, merely suggestions. neither lorna nor me nor anyone else can know for certain wahts going on with you sweetie, but i hope you find a solution soon
i wasnt expecting anyone to replace a doctor... and there arent any other symptoms. its just a strong pain during penetration. i was merely hoping someone else has had a similar experience (not from rough sex). so i could have my nerves cooled a little/i could have a general idea of what to expect at the doctor (usually i go and know what he'll say already, but i need the prescription). i'm hoping theres an alternative medicinal approach i can use for this... i dont like western medicine.
i wasnt trying to admonish you dear, just getting anoyed at others saying htey know exactly what the problem is, yknow? if its just as he penetrates you, you might just have a minor infection that you dont notice the symptoms of, like a mild yeast infection perhaps
