it's hard to explain..... i just sort of knew that we would work and i knew he had the a sex drive up to par with mine
The touching. He doesn't really do verbal flirting - he's one of those guys that, instead, when he wants you, lets his touches linger until the attraction is almost unbearable. His hands spoke for him ^_~ I knew something was there for months before we got together because of that. That, and his amazing sense of humor! I find that aspect of dating and guys in general very important. If I can't laugh through everything with him, then the tough times will be even tougher.
I think the first thing that attracted me to her is how generally sweet she is I met her through the internet-ish, and she had crappy pictures, so it wasn't a look thing on my part :tongue: generally the first thing that attracts me to girls is looks though
she had a starbucks coffee in hand at work at 7am. i knew she had good taste AND her ducks in a row. she was also radiant. i didn't know that she was near as beautiful as she is but that is something you learn after years of being together.
His voice. That was the beginning of my undying love and devotion. If I have a bad day, or am in a lousy mood his voice soothes me. If we're being intimate his voice excites and thrills me. Even after eight years together I still find his voice intoxicating. The rest of him is pretty great too ;-)
His smile and his eyes, initially. Once we began to talk, it was the fact that I never once felt uncomfortable or self-conscious around him. From the beginning, everything just seemed to fit.
His insecurity. He was so timid and cute that I just wanted to hug him and never let go. (Nevermind that he's tall, dark, and handsome. hehe Jackpot!)
Well, for me, 'twas his patience & he was very sweet.. but his capability of serious commitment scared the hell out of me. It grew on me, though. Physically, at first, I loved his freckles, long hair, and his lipring.. (I really wanted to nibble it.. ) I feel awful now because it took me a lot of patient convincing because I'd never been in a serious relationship before.
initially it was his understanding and genuine sincerity that attracted me..... but the fact that he was the one I could tell anything and everything to after having major trust issues and not being able to trust anyone... he knows things about me that noone else besides me know.... his ability to express himself through words to me... since we aren't near each other right now... and how he is only one who has yet to let me down... he is truely amazing and I dont know what I'd do without him.
I'm with no girl, but I used to love people who paid enough attention to me and chatted w/ me for a long time. Now, I don't love anyone but my family and friends/work colleagues.
