ive been with my boyfriend for a few months and the most we've done is hold hands - im shy and have never had a first kiss. How would you initiate it? I dont wanna look stupid.
my first bf and i were sitting on a park bench beside each other, looking ateach other while we talked, his arm around me. i leaned in a little, he started leaning in a little too and ta-dah our lips met. nice chaste, not all slobbery, well, to start off with at least. just lean in towards his face next time you two are facing each other and it seems like a good appropriate, if he doesnt lean back then just brush your lips ever so delicately against his so that its not like your trying to crawl into his mouth with your tongue
I had trouble approaching this at first too all in all, just lean in and do it I had it easy, our first kiss was New Years but the second kiss was a hard one, it happened prolly our 3rd or 4th time hanging out after going official we were listening to music, I was holding her and we were talking, and A Whole New World came on, and I just leaned in and kissed her it's not really that awkward, you just make it awkward in your head, they are all right, just do it
Turn your head about 20-30 degrees in whatever direction you like, close your eyes, part your lips, move forward. When your lips press onto your partners, start moving your tongue around a little. And it can't go wrong, if it does, it was just a kiss. First kisses aren't even that big a deal anyways, they're a tiny, forgettable milestone.
I bolded the directions I agree with here. the eyes open/closed thing is debatable, just don't stare at the person =P the tongue part comes naturally if you are nice and comfortable with it, don't just start moving your tongue about randomly =P
Hold his hand, look in his eyes, bite your bottom lip a little, then lean in for the kill...err kiss. First kisses are always a little awkward, but once it has happened you're usually left thinking, "Geez! Why didn't I do that sooner!" Good luck. It's scary, but you'll be sooo happy after it's over. So will he!
First relationships aren't all they're cracked up to be. I spent so long alone that I ended up having all these expectations of what my first kiss would be like. When it happend it was dead awkward and I felt worse about myself! (It doesn't matter though. The guy was a cock! Markowen4life knows who I mean!) The answer is: confidence. Just be yourself hun and remember your true feelings for him. Be happy and remember: The great thing about first kissses is that there are bound to be second ones!
Oh, man.. Our first peck was cute.. but sooo not romantic. It was one of those "can I kiss you?" "go for it." First real kiss.. jesus christ. Akward as hell.
for some on the other hand, my first real relationships has lasted 6 months thus far and I care more for her tahn I have ever cared for anyonr and have never been happier
Let's be nice to the girl! She just turned 14, and has just started off with her first bf! Most of you are going WAY too advanced here. Green girl, don't be afraid to make the first move. Trust your intuition, and try to read him to pick the right moment. It may scare him or freak him out at first, so expect that. I think you should NOT go for the full tongue experience to start with. Allonym's advice is great. At your stage, a peck on the cheek may be a good way to start testing the waters. If he responds nicely, then you can move on to the lips in a little while. (But be sure to move on to the lips! It's SO much better!) Also, try gently rubbing your noses together. This is can be WAY sexy, and it will get you in the neighborhood for more kisses! Don't let anyone else's ideas rush either of you beyond what you are really ready for. You have time, and this relationship is about enjoying being together, not rushing to someone else's finish line. I'm sure you'll do fine. Let us know how it goes.
Who can really plan their first kiss? Even if you try to picture it in ur mind it is always something unexpected. Like every1 said, don't think about it too much and just do it. When I have my first kiss it was outta nowhere... I was sitting @ a park and the girl I was hanging out with just kissed me all the sudden. Ha! I didn't even closed my eyes
