SO I've known dis guy for 3 years now, I met him when I was 12. We became friends and we were really close but then I started to like him. All I could think about would be him, at first I thought it was lust but then I got more into him. He would go out with girls and dat would make me really jealous. He would tell me all about his girlfriends...I didn't want to hear about it but I wanted him to know dat I was there for him and dat I would do anything for him. I couldnt take it, but I didn't know how to tell him dat I loved him. It was like dat for 2 years and he still wouldn't notice dat I liked him..I would give him hints but he would never get it. I would cry every night, and I would hope dat he could see dat I loved him. When we got to high school I decided to stop talking to him b-cuz I thought dat it would make me 4get about him but it made it worse. I would cry even more and everything around me reminded me of him. Everytime I saw him I would cry, I was like dis for 6 months. We started talking to each other again but it was different, we werent as close as we used to. So we stopped talking to each other again. I stopped thinking about him for a month and I thought I was over him but lately the thought of him has been coming back. I dont know what to do anymore! I'm tired of waiting for him, it has been a long time and I havent been able to get him out of my head. I have been dating and all but the thought of him keeps coming back. I dont know how to forget about him. I dont want to waste all my youth waiting for him. But I seriously have no idea of how to make take him out of my mind and just 4get about him completely. CAN ANYONE HELP ME!! PLZ!
Either talk about this to him, or move on. You don't talk as much as you used to, and you aren't as close...if you don't make a move, what makes you think he will? Either make something happen yourself, or get over him, because if you don't he'll become idolised in your mind and screw with any relationships you have after all this shit blows over. Basically...shit, or get off the can. You said it yourself..."I dont want to waste all my youth waiting for him." Don't waste your youth waiting for your ship to come in, if it doesn't know where it's meant to dock, or even where the port is! Move it along, or move it on. Your choice, your move.
Thanx for the advice Kether it really helps. I think I'm just going to start to move on and forget about him for good. Thank you very much!
No worries AKIRE. Usually when I give advice, my friends complain that I'm too harsh or direct. Thought I might have been here, so it's nice to see I helped. Good luck AKIRE !!!
Yeah, get off the can, man ! Dixielove, you couldn't have said it any better. Funny to read it, but so true. Some men will never get their head out of their ass.. can't find their way out of a wet paper bag, or find their butt with both hands either. LOL
