Lately, I haven't been able to see my girlfriend as much as usual. It is summertime now, so school is out. I am in 2 bands, and dont see her on Thursday or Friday, I also work odd jobs. She works and goes to summer school. everytime I call her she always asks me if I flirted with any girls over my days not being with her. I haven't been. We talked about trust before, and she said she doesn't trust me. I have not given her a reason not to, and I feel like she either has a hard time trusting guys because her last one cheated on her 8 months in. It is almost 10 months for us. I'm just not digging how she always asks me if I have been flirting or anything, and how she doesn't trust me. It makes me wonder if I should trust her. whatcha think? could be paranoid. I love this girl.
If you love her then you'll stay with her until you don't or until you can't. From what you say she appears to have trust issues with men, you've just got to keep earning her trust, I'm sure she won't ask for ever. I know I always used to be paranoid about something in my relationship but it just shows that she doesn't want to lose you, and again I'm sure she'll eventually "grow out of it".
I think you should try to see your girlfriend more. You should ask her y she doesn't trust you, maybe she feels insecure about herself and she might think you want somebody else. You should really talk to her and try to figure out what is really going on with her.
I think you should try to show her with actions, that she's important to you and that you are not interested in anyone else. Invite her to come along to one of your gigs so she can see how you behave, introduce her to your mates, let her be a part of your social life so she can see for herself that you are honest and have nothing to hide. Words aren't enough, she needs to see your actions to learn to trust you.
i agree. have the same problem...i don;t trust my boy...he doesn't trust me. we've both had our trust broken by someone at some point. him by his ex. me by him (long story short. he was trying to get back at her by sending a "made up" conversation to her now boyfriend so he'd break up with her. and i snooped and found it and all the trust went down the drain and it's just been hard to completely trust him ever since) just. see her more. stick by her. show her she can trust you with actions.
