My best friend who we will call john is in the marines will be coming home in the next week after a year and 1/2 deployment. The problem is that right before he left we realized that we had filling for each other. He was great about said it would be best if we forgot about it till he came and for me 2 just date and all. But I never really found anyone that I felt the same way about. We have talked/emailed/imp on a constant basis senece he left. The problem is that when he gets home I no he will want 2 have sex after such along "dry spell" he is really hot and could find a # of willing helpers. But he has mentioned doing it with but in a joking kind of way 2 keep me from filling like I have 2. The thing is I am a virgin I don’t think I would have a problem sleeping with him but should I? He would never talk with me about because he would want 2 pressure me into it he is also 7 year older i m 18 he is 25. And if I do decide 2 sleep with him how do I behave and how do I keep him from filling guilty/like he took advantage of me?
DON SLEEP WITH HIM! It's easy to tell that you're not ready for that and in someway you feel obligated to do it because of the situation. If you do like him, start a relationsip if it possible, but even after 3 months of relationshp if you don't feel ready don't do anything. You don't have to do anything, it's your choise. Just take it easy.
I agree. This one is quite easy. You absolutely should not sleep with him. This will be one of those moments in life that you will regret for a very long time. When the time is right, you will not be as torn as this. Wait for the right time and guy.
You are an adult now, and can decide for yourself if you want to give your virginity to him. Don't push it - if it happens, it happens naturally. After a year and a half (in Iraq?) he may be a changed guy in many ways, so you will have to reacquaint yourself with him, and he with you. Go slow...
