A friend of mine had a pregnancy scare recently and was on tender hooks waiting to see if his Girlfriend was pregnant. She wasn't but he was freaking out until he found it was all OK. I was asking him what was the plan if she was pregnant and he and I agreed that it would be best if she had an abortion, but he said he didn't feel brave enough to suggest it and I realised that in the same situation I'd be scared to ask a woman to have an abortion. My question is would you be able to ask a woman to have an abortion? what if she wanted to have it would you be able to admit that you really didn't want it, assuming you don't want it
Just so you know I voted yes but only just, I'd be afraid of pressuring her into something she'd regret. For this reason I usually have a conversation at the beginning of a relationship regarding attitudes to birth control. I reckon I should just get a vasectomy on the cheap
I couldn't ask her to. It's her baby too. Loving children as I do, I don't think I could, so her or I will use something.
It really depends on the situation. I don't have a stance on abortion, so whether I'd want it done or not would depend on the specifics. As far as asking her to have one, it would depend on the woman, but I would probably just be able to, if I really felt it was necessary.
Look ... I'm just gonna throw this question out there: What is the real issue people have with carrying the baby to term and allowing it to be adopted by one of literally THOUSANDS of loving families waiting and begging desparately to ADOPT? Ok ... now bring on all the hateful comments about how I am stupid, woefully misinformed, and otherwise unqualified to even ask such questions due to my gender. I'm expecting them. {steps off soapbox}
Well, you don't get any bad mouth from me, man. What I don't understand is how God would let these people get this way, kill them before they are born, or let the ones that kill them after they get here have kids. Yet the ones that cry, pray and will do anything to have one..can't. Maybe it is his plan for them to adopt a child from those he bless with a baby and can't appreciate it and/ or want his gift after it was given to them.
NO it isnt that way. It is often that a girl want a baby but cant sustain life with a kid becuase she live in a country who doesnt help mothers at all, and where if oyu dont have money you are worth nothing and end up in the street. And always women want the father to be there too. If men were more responsible and takling fatherhood seriously, and the one they love too, there will never be any abort. I think men ask too much from women. They want everything also their love and care, but they are not much willing to give anything back, and consider themselves as hero just to love the woman they are with or for not asking ofr an abort if they made her pregnant. Its their sex, if she got pregnant thats cause they didnt put soemthing on it to protect her, so why should she take responsability for their carelessness? he has too. And thats call becoming a father and assuming what you do. I dont think it is fun for a woman to give birth and give the child away. Thats inhuman too. Better have a man that love oyu by your side and be there to raise the kid. Anything else is wrong to someone. Here, both to the mum and the child. Men have to be more responsible for their actions. If she is pregnant, he did it, and has to take it all the way through.
No they don't. Getting rid of their baby is as easy for them as taking out the trash. I'm right, ya know. Some place their baby in a trash can after they have the baby.
HEY!! What about what I wrote above??!! : Women never do so, easy for you to see it that way, men are really incredibel, it is their fault cause they dont get responsability, and they give women the blame for it! If women could get automatically help if they had kids, then it will solve the problem. Another way to solve it will be to put the father who doesnt want to take charge for his child, in jail. That will change the whole thing. They will take care more with prevention, and they will be more willing to assume if it happen! When they cant do it on their own out of humanity and love, then the low has to force them. ----------------------
by pants i mean trousers as I ma wearing a long dress. so I want to hear excuses here. You are so dirty!
Yes You Are! And I Am Not Your Sex Object! And What About Reading What I Said Above? Maybe Not So Interesting, Huh?
