I much prefer ladies, as in, chicks that are about 25+. I'm 19 myself, so yeah, I think it's a problem because when I say prefer I don't just mean if you lined up a hot MILF vs a hot girl my age I'd be torn between the two and usually pick the MILF, there's just no question, I like older chicks like 20x more than girls my age. Is this a problem? I can see how this could lead to a lack of relationships for me but other than this it it really a big deal? When I told a mate of mine a while ago that I preferred older chicks he laughed at me, like I was nuts. What the hell? I don't think it's a big deal to like MILFs, I think my problem is how much I prefer them over girls my age. What do you peeps reckon ?
I hear yea on the older ladies. Every girl iv fooled around with and slept with has been older than me. Being with someone who has more experience whatever it may be is a turn on. I just met my new girl and she is 22. I got a touchdown on this one. =]
I am a bit confused about this post, do you like older chicks in general or specifically ones who have had children?
I can relate. I am usually attracted to girls a tad younger than me or at least a good 7 or so years older than me. Most 20 year old girls are just oversexed and extremely confused about their own identity. Girls in their late 20s have already pretty much found themselves, are comfortable with themselves, and are usually not sluts if you find the right one. Younger girls... at around 16-18 still have that emotional innocence and idealism that's beautiful. But yeah, 20 year old American girls....ehh... most of the ones I have met are just not worth my time.
haha Pavel... "usually not sluts if you find the right one." I usually prefer older guys, mid/late twenties. They've just got everything together(well, usually... ahah) and aren't generally sex-crazed/immature/etc., at that age... Much more agreeable to me.
Ok, just because you used the term "MILF' fairly liberally, the M stands for Mum. Anyway, there is nothing wrong with digging older chicks, they're sexy! sure so are 18 - 21 hotties but there is nothing wrong with your particular preferance... shit there are way un-natural attractions out there, older chicks is not one of them. Personally, i find them hard to please, most girls around my age are dating older guys so the girls a bit older then yourself already have a very certain understanding of what they want.
I know the feeling. I've always been drawn to girls that are older than me, even if it's just a year or two though the biggest age gap I had was 10 years older than myself. Never had a younger girlfriend and have no desire to particularly, many of my friends have young girlfriends and I can't deal with hanging around with them too often as they do my head in. Not saying all younger people are like this but when you're aged 24 I don't see much common ground between you and a 17 year old... And it's just, well, urrr, I dunno, not right. There's something creepy and weird about younger girls/older guys, a control thing on the guys part as the girls are more easily influenced by the actions of said guy and a needyness on the girl's I think, I'd feel uncomfortable with a girl younger than me, though as with every rule I'm sure there are exceptions Current lady friend is 2 years older and sorts it right out. I'm only 25 but I do find girls much younger a nightmare emotionally and headfuckingly (and sexually ), much rather be with someone who's a lot more confident and has seen it all before (and they can sort me out when I spack out). I don't go for them either, they just seem to come to me... Which leads me on to my next point... All the girlfriends I've had for the last 6 or so years have been foriegn as well as older, I evidently have a set forumla though have no clue how or why...