My ex husband has been running from child support for years, when they would send a letter to his work it wouldnt be long till he quit the job or even made sure his friend/boss covered for him. He lives on friends couches and never puts his name on a lease and when he stays with his parents I KNOW they lie for him. They bought him a car after he blew the engine up in mine and destroyed my brakes................................ The kids arent allowed to go over to their grandparents house any more since last Christmas they let my ex take them to a house for dinner of a man who I know used to sell coke, probably still does. Anyways that bitch made the mistake of posting on his MYSPACE account HAHAHA that he works at GameStop & That he has enough money to go see some hardcore bands all the time =) Woo Hoo So i get to print all of this out as a nice little chunk of information for the Court System!! There are also all sorts of things about massive amounts of drugs all over his page, not to mention one of his friends tried to fight my sister a few weeks ago in a bar because she thought she was me (I don't know her and I havent been to a bar in over a year) Stupid fucker, So I called child support today and gave them his information so they can verify his job and serve his ass at work! I know it is bad but I don't even care about the money anymore, now all I want to do is make my point!! Tommy has been so good to the kids that he is going to adopt them (they asked him to) when he gets home from, Kuwait, and we really don't need the child support I am just doing this out of spite now, I know I am a bitch, and I dont care!
shit, i would too. i have friends who are going through hell trying to raise their kids by themselves and collect child support from the kid's fathers who dont contribute shit to help in raising their kids, time or money. i cant believe this guy would lie about having a job!
yeah its lame and I am to the point to where I just want to be the most hateful bitch i can possibly be...............
yep it is totally sad... his reason is if he pays child support he wont be able to live off the rest of the money, and by "live" he means get completely fucked up every night of the week!
Some boys are just too immature to realize that he's just hurting his children in the long run. Kudos to Tommy for being there where their daddy couldn't.
I think that they should chop this guys nuts off to make sure he doesn't breed anymore. Eveybody wants to act like a man when it's time to bump uglies, but then when it's time to take responsibility for their actions....... I mean really, I couldn't even imagine leaving my kids high and dry. Even if my wife and I hated eachother, I would make sure that the children were set up.
that is what I think too if he had the kids and I wanted to murder him in his sleep because I hater him so much, I would still see my kids every day and give them as much stuff as I could possibly buy them......... even now if I have $5 in my pocket I spend it on them and not myself....... I honestly dont know how he is happy with his self...
This is what kills me. They don't want to stop to use something, you get this way and they don't want to help pay to bring up the child. Hey, you play..you pay. Some men need to stop and think and not let their dick head friend do their thinking for them. All he is saying is.. don't stop for nothing.. get that thing !
it's a shame so many parents are getting away with not paying child support in NC. Arent they supposed to be really going after these people? I know other women who never got anything either. I thought they could garnish wages or put them in jail. And it's sadly father's like that who won't let another man adopt "their" kids.
they can garnish wages and put them in jail when they can find them. but some employers refuse to cooperate and return letters from child support verifying the parents works for their company, it is really sad my ex stays of the grid, doesn't pay taxes, doesn't sign anything, so no one can ever be sure of where he is......... I know where he is but they wont serve him with papers untill they have something in writing from the post master or his boss stating his residence or workplace
